Introduction: Slow heating can make people feel distant, and Bian Xiao is also a slow heating person. After contact, when Bian Xiao and some friends ask about their impressions of 1, they will think that Bian Xiao is a very cold person. Actually, Bian Xiao isn't. He just likes to be alone. I believe some people may be sensitive, because they have been hurt, so they feel insecure and know that human nature is complicated. So when you get along with people, you will unconsciously show a cold side. At this time, if you really want to contact, you need patience and sincere communication with people who are slow to heat. Only by being sincere and cherishing can we make friends with slow-moving people.

Please help yourself

In fact, slow personality is not a shortcoming, but what kind of way a person wants to contact others, but in this process, he must make himself comfortable, so as to establish a safe and friendly relationship. In fact, there are many ways to build relationships, and you don't have to make friends with others actively. If he can gradually integrate into this social way and make himself comfortable, there is really no need to choose an overly open social way. Because many times, when a relationship becomes stressful, people like slow-paced people will take the initiative to avoid socializing, so make themselves comfortable. This way can help slow-paced people make better friends.

Leave your comfort zone voluntarily.

In fact, for people with slow fever, sometimes they need to learn to leave their comfort zone, not always immerse themselves in their own small world, but learn to promote a relationship. You can take the initiative to deal with others, you can say hello to others, and only when you are recognized by others will you feel happy. Don't always expect others to communicate with you, it will only make you think a lot.

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Finally, for people with slow fever, they will suffer more in interpersonal communication, which is also because they have been in contact with others for a long time, so they will suffer more in the workplace.