1. The so-called complaint is a way of shirking responsibility because the implementation is not in place.
2. Regardless of the closeness of the relationship, when getting along with others, you must at least do the following: do not laugh at the other person's shortcomings, do not belittle the other person's hobbies, and do not take the gibberish as humor.
3. There are three ways to solve all problems: accept, change, and leave. If you can't accept it, then change it; if you can't change it, then leave it.
4. Life is short. If you want to live without being tired, you have to compare less. If you want to live without being bored, you have to worry less.
5. Even if what you are doing now is hard and tiring, as long as it is worth it, please persevere. Only when you look back in the future will you be qualified to say, I got here the same way.
6. Nothing can knock you down at once, and nothing can make you reach the sky in one step. Walk slowly and look slowly. Life is a process of slow accumulation.
7. No one in this world is indispensable, nothing is irreplaceable, nothing cannot be given up, nothing is must-have, just do your best and obey fate.
8. It is never too late to change. No matter how old you are, or how bad your current situation is, as long as you set goals and move forward step by step, there is always the possibility of a turnaround in your life.
9. Isn’t life like this? If there is a piece missing here, make up for it there, fill it up, and finally seek perfection. The so-called perfection is always given to oneself.
10. The journey of growth is to know how to shut up and work hard, know how to be low-key and humble, learn to strengthen yourself, and work hard to become the person you want to be in every cherishable day.
11. Make friends who make you happy, love people who won’t make you cry, go in the direction you want to go, and fulfill your ideals no matter how big or small; life should be beautiful and gentle. ,The same to you.
12. A person always has to walk a strange road, see strange scenery, listen to strange songs, and then at an inadvertent moment, you will find that the things you tried so hard to forget are really Just forgot about it.
13. Cost So the so-called confession in your mouth is to satisfy the other party, whether it is spiritual or material satisfaction, which is called exchange of benefits. Making amends after the fact cannot change the fact that what has happened. Forgiveness is due to sincerity, or in exchange for sufficient benefits, or even forced to give in due to imposed favors.
14. In life, it is a kind of wisdom to say what needs to be said and to be dumb when there is a need; in life, it is a kind of wisdom to do what needs to be done and to retreat from what needs to be done; in life, it is a kind of wisdom; Reveal what is obvious and hide what should be hidden; it is a state of mind.
15. In this life, I can only say that some things are unexpected, some things are reasonable, some things are uncontrollable, some things are unsatisfactory, and some things are unsatisfactory. Things are illogical, and some things come to light suddenly, but no matter what happens, never forget your own heart, your own conscience, your own character and your own principles.
16. As a person, you must be able to hold your head up, and even more so, you must be able to bow your head. Between up and down, it is not just a posture, but also an attitude and a quality. Looking up in adversity is a kind of courage and confidence; lowering your head in good times is a kind of calmness and low-key. Raising your head when you are in a low position is a sign of integrity, and bowing your head when you are in a high position is a sign of humility. People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. As a person, you need to have the courage to strive for the top, and you must also have the courage to be willing to bow your head.
17. No one can bother you, unless you bother yourself with other people's words and deeds; there is nothing you can't let go of, unless you are unwilling to let it go. Life is about mood; life is about quality.
18. In life, there are always some things that make us dissatisfied; in life, there are always some people who make us unhappy; in life, there are always some setbacks that make us depressed. As a human being, we always have troubles, and if we have a heart, we will always be tired.
19. No matter what, life must continue to move forward. Sometimes hurt and failure are not necessarily a bad thing, it will make you better. The same is true for loneliness and loss. Everything will turn out to be a good thing in the end, as long as you can get to the end.
20. Society is the stepmother! If there is suffering, you have to swallow it; if there are tears in your eyes, you have to hold them back; if you are tired, you have to carry them on. If your biological mother gives you a simple and beautiful life, then your stepmother gives you a life of ups and downs.
21. Life is rarely confused. The so-called confusion does not mean that there is water in the head, but a person who is confused on the surface but clear on the inside. Think openly, let go, and look forward, so that you can escape from trivial disputes. Confused people bury their wisdom deeply in their hearts, face the overly complicated world, and live a simple life. Do things simply, don't be anxious when meeting people, don't be annoyed when things happen, and brew the mellow wine of life with the rare and confused ease of being at peace with the situation.
22. There are many things that become old things before you know how to cherish them; there are many people that become old people before you have time to pay attention. Whether you realize it or not, life is always moving forward. Life does not sell round-trip tickets, and what is lost will never be lost again. We all grow old too quickly and wise too late.
23. If you don’t know what you want to do, do the things around you first; if you don’t know who you will meet, learn to be kind to the people around you first; if you don’t know if what you are doing now is meaningful, At least make sure you haven't done nothing. In the fog, you may only be able to see the five meters in front of you, but as you step down step by step, the fog will slowly dissipate.
24. A person who has both sides looks good with everyone, but no one is really good with him. A low-key person who doesn't know anyone, but everyone has him in their heart. People who have both sides need to deal with all kinds of complexity, so they become very complicated, and people become tired when they are complicated. A low-key person only needs to be quiet about his own world. Therefore, if he lives a simple life, he will be very happy when he is simple. Complexity can never compete with simplicity.
25. In this world, there is no one-and-done, perfect choice. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moon at the same time, you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time. Not all the benefits are yours. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can gain something. You have to learn to accept the incompleteness and sadness of your life, and then be at peace. Because, this is life.
26. No matter how traitorous Cao Cao is, he will always have close friends, and no matter how good Liu Bei is, he will always have his enemies, so don’t care too much about other people’s evaluation of you, be yourself, do your own thing well, and follow your own path. .
27. In life: you can be short of money, but you can't be immoral; you can make a mistake, but you can't break your promise; you can fall, but you can't kneel down; you can seek fame, but you can't steal it; you can be depressed, but you can't Degenerate; you can relax, but not indulgence; you can be vain, but not hypocritical; you can be ordinary, but not mediocre; you can be romantic, but not dissolute; you can be angry, but not cause trouble.