Now is a modern and open society. It is no longer as closed as before. Both adults and children will have their own entertainment circles. As parents, they will unconsciously get involved in their children's socializing and entertainment. They are afraid that their children will learn bad things, which also corresponds to the saying that parents in the world have poor hearts. Rather than letting your child be unhappy or even having emotions towards you, you have to be responsible for your child. There are pros and cons! As a child, if a classmate wants to spend the night at his home, how should he communicate with his parents? To put it simply, it means explaining the reason, communicating with both parents, or agreeing on rules.

1. The reason is very important.

It is a normal idea for children to want to let their classmates and playmates come to their home to play, or even spend the night. As a parent, you also need to be careful, and as a child, you also need to explain the situation clearly. Why do you or him want him to spend the night at your home? What is the reason, what is the relationship between the two of you, the other person's personality, study status, etc. can be explained a little bit, so that parents can feel better at ease.

2. Both parents must communicate.

It is definitely not advisable to rashly let the other person spend the night at your home, especially if the other person's parents don't know about it, it is even more inappropriate. Therefore, if your classmate insists on coming over, or if you kindly invite him to come over, you must provide the contact information of the other person’s parents. The parents of both parties can get in touch and inform each other so that both parties can rest assured. This is very critical and important. a little bit.

3. Parents and children agree on rules.

As a parent, everything about your own children is the most important. It does not mean that the other person’s children are not important, but they are always higher and lower in comparison. Therefore, parents and children can make agreements about what they can and cannot do, and how many times a month classmates will spend the night at home. These can be communicated and agreed upon, which is responsible for themselves and their parents.

In my opinion, as long as safety is ensured, parents generally welcome their children’s friends and classmates to visit their homes. As a child, you also need to greet and communicate with your parents in advance, so that your parents can better build a good relationship with the landlord!