Well, to sum up the poster’s self-report

The best way is that the poster should learn to actively communicate with others, but at the same time not be too enthusiastic

(Others will think that if you are too enthusiastic, You are fake, hypocritical)

It’s okay to be introverted, it can be grown step by step, everyone grows up

As long as you are willing to deal with it actively

In high school you have many classmates you have known before, so you don’t have to worry about the unfamiliar environment

You just need to try to chat with your classmates and add a few words to some topics that you can interrupt

Your old and new classmates will gradually get to know you, and they will gradually identify with you

(The new class does not have a circle, but after a few months the circle will come out, and you will also have your own circle. Maybe you haven't realized it, but it's impossible to get along well in every circle, so just focus on your studies while also taking into account your interpersonal relationships. You don't have to make friends with everyone. If you have the opportunity to get along, communicate with each other, so be active. Participate in various activities, after all, getting to know more individuals is not a bad thing)

Of course, the biggest weapon for girls to communicate is to admire boys.

So be more sincere (sincere! Natural! Don’t be pretentious!) and sigh that a certain classmate is so awesome in certain aspects

I believe that classmate’s friendliness towards you will definitely increase significantly, hahaha

ps: It is difficult to understand other people’s experiences,

Because the words we type now are condensed three years of high school life

It is outdated without experience It’s hard to understand

I hope the original poster has a wonderful life as a freshman in high school!

(Second and senior years of high school, haha, girls are too diligent...)

Every class will consciously or unconsciously form small teams of various sizes. It turns out that everyone has different personalities and interests

In fact, things like the circle cannot be saved by one person

I once naively longed for high school (there were many people in my junior high school class) For girls, the boys in the class are very united. There are only 10 boys in the 2nd and 3rd grade classes.)

But when you enter this group, although many people

know Understand what the shortcomings of this group are

There are also many people who try to break the deadlock, but the results are in vain

Because many girls are just unwilling to communicate with others

This is also We can’t blame others

After all, we can’t force others to change our will

The poster wants to establish good interpersonal relationships, which is a good idea

We are responsible for the circle of things It’s out of control

We can only pretend to ignore the existence of the circle

Communicate with others actively and proactively

Many of your classmates are old classmates

In fact, it is easy to form an invisible circle

Since there is no problem in everyone's communication

So the poster just needs to be himself and focus on his studies. It's fundamental. Then communicate with others after completing the learning tasks, smile naturally, and communicate with others proactively but not too enthusiastically. This is the real way.

The degree is to focus on academics and take into account interpersonal relationships. I have mentioned it many times above

(To put it more realistically, in high school, if there is no strength, there will be no focus

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If you play well, the whole class will pay attention; if you are number one in the class, the whole class will pay attention

I hate this kind of focus, it simply destroys individuality.

Just like a certain person. If your composition is good, you will completely ignore someone's other advantages.

If someone's achievements and sports are not outstanding, then you will completely ignore their existence.)