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It seems that no one can make the concept of "friend" clear, and the understanding of friends is mostly superficial.
A person's definition of a friend embodies his code of conduct in dealing with people.
Friends should know themselves-reflecting their own requirements for friends belongs to domestic demand. On the premise of satisfying themselves, they should know themselves and know themselves.
Help each other, trust each other and rely on each other-this is an interactive form of friends, and giving and taking are the most important.
Do what you can and be honest with each other-this is a kind of external demand, and you need to get strength, help or feel that you can help each other solve problems. This is a friend.
Most people's understanding of friends can be roughly divided into these three types, which are related to people's personality, and there is no difference between good and bad.
What is a friend?
In the process of getting along with people, you can form a fixed contact way and have a fixed communication channel, so you can become friends.
For the definition of friends, some people put it too broadly, and feel that they have their own friends everywhere; Some people put it too tightly, thinking that friends are people who want to do everything, people in trouble, and people who are * * *.
In fact, we chat and talk, and we don't have so much dependence on each other. Can't we be friends without anyone's help?
In the process of making friends, we often go into some misunderstandings: six common mistakes in making friends
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A natural social worker
There is no intersection between the two, perhaps because we met at a party or something. We sat together and chatted, feeling that we have known each other for a long time. ...
Born to be familiar, it is easy to get along with people without scruples and deliver everything, which is often said to be from shallow to deep, even intimate.
But, come to think of it, you regard him as a friend. Are you his friend in his heart?
Maybe people don't take you seriously at all?
This mode of getting along is not equal. You treat people as friends, and people don't treat you as friends at all.
Will you get hurt when you find out this fact?
Even if people don't hurt you, suddenly one day, you know people don't treat you as a friend at all. Will your heart get cold?
So don't get along with people like this, and don't say that everyone is your friend.
Not everyone in this world can be your friend.