It is really a great misfortune to miss the opportunity to associate with people who are better than ourselves, because we can benefit a lot from this person.
The greater the energy a person absorbs from others, the better the quality and the more kinds, the greater his strength. Assuming that he has a lot of social, spiritual and moral contacts with his peers, then he must be a formidable person. On the other hand, if he breaks off the relationship between people and me, then he will definitely become a weak person.
3. Participate in a wide range of collective activities. It is a group activity for many people to participate in fraternity, training, seminars or summer and winter camps with similar interests. Even if you are not interested, it is better to actively participate.
Because such activities create many opportunities for communication. For example, some people who don't drink, after drinking a little, pour out all their feelings and form good friends with these people from now on. If you always say "what's the point of making so much noise", no one will invite you again.
4. Make good use of opportunities to cooperate with others. The process of cooperation with others is also the process of making friends, which provides a good opportunity to expand the scope of communication, because the same occupation is the premise of finding a bosom friend.
5. People who cultivate their curiosity, hobbies and interests are easy to make friends with all kinds of people. If a person can play poker, dance, swim, skate, play ball, play chess, etc. And with more hobbies, he will have more opportunities to "have fun" with everyone and make more friends.
Even if you are not good at a certain aspect, if you show a strong interest, win the favor of the other party and affirm his characteristics, you can also cause a * * * sound.
Curious, group activity room, no matter who is invited. If you are interested, go. If you are not interested, both boys and girls should participate enthusiastically. Only in this way can people feel your charm and feel a happy atmosphere.
6. Don't let personality differences get in the way. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. Like-minded people are easy to approach, on the contrary, they are easy to alienate. But remember, socializing is not the same as choosing friends. In social circles, more people are not friends or just ordinary friends. Therefore, in the social process, don't take the conditions of choosing friends or even bosom friends as the standard. Anyone who doesn't have the same interests and personality will be rejected.
The new friends you meet in the social circle should be people who are very different from you. There are differences between friends in knowledge structure, hobbies, life experience, temperament and personality, which helps both sides to understand all aspects of society widely. It is a great blessing for a new friend to have a completely different view from yours, which can supplement and enrich your thoughts.
7. Create your own communication opportunities. You need to push yourself from time to time, try to find opportunities to show your abilities, let people know more about yourself, and then establish a relationship of mutual respect and trust.
There are many skills to make friends, and this is only a small part. If you can learn more from your present life, you will understand that making friends is a good thing, haha.
I hope my point of view can help you. Good luck.