Unit 1 Be a self-respecting and confident person

Lesson 1 "Cherish priceless self-esteem" [self-esteem]

1, what is self-esteem? (Definition/Meaning)

Self-esteem: self-respect, that is, neither bowing to others nor allowing others to discriminate or insult. The expression of self-esteem: pay attention to the decoration of appearance, the exquisiteness of behavior and the consequences of behavior.

2. The relationship between self-esteem, shame and vanity.

(1) The relationship between shame and self-esteem?

Self-respect means self-respect, neither bowing to others nor allowing others to discriminate or insult; Knowing shame is an important manifestation of self-esteem; A truly self-respecting person must be a person who knows shame.

② The relationship between vanity and self-esteem?

Self-respect means self-respect, neither bowing to others nor allowing others to discriminate or insult; Pay attention to the beauty of appearance, the elegance of behavior and the consequences of behavior. Vanity is a kind of psychology that pursues superficial glory and brilliance.

3. How to understand that respecting others means respecting yourself? (Why/Why)

Respect for others is the need of self-esteem and self-improvement. A self-respecting person knows how to respect others. If they want to win the respect of others, they must respect others first. People who don't respect others can't win their respect. We have the responsibility to care about others' self-esteem and safeguard their dignity.

4. How to respect others? (method/suggestion)

To respect others, we should regard others as needing self-esteem as much as ourselves. Respecting others means paying attention to their dignity. Be kind to each other from the perspective of appreciation, encouragement and expectation, and don't do things that harm others and benefit others. The most basic performance of respecting others is to be polite to others, respect their labor and respect their personality. To respect others, we must first be good at appreciating and accepting others; Secondly, don't do anything that hurts others' personality.

5. How to win the respect of others? (method/suggestion)

Self-respecting people value their own personality most; Do not seek vanity and refuse to get into bad habits. Develop an open-minded and cheerful personality, appreciate the wisdom of others and feel the happiness of self-esteem. (3) Treat criticism, change it if you have it, and encourage it if you don't. ④ Self-esteem should be moderate; Respond to insults and slander in time, and defend your self-esteem with legal weapons when necessary.

6, respect can make people rational, respect can make people repent, respect can awaken people's conscience, resulting in immeasurable follow-up effect.

Lesson 2 "Raise the sail of self-confidence" [Self-confidence/I can do it]

1, what is confidence? (Definition/Meaning)

Self-confidence is a person's confidence in his own strength, and it is a person who can accomplish something and achieve the goal he pursues.

2. Self-confidence?

It is to believe that you can do it ideologically, show that you can do it in behavior, and experience it emotionally.

3. Distinguish between self-confidence, conceit and inferiority (the characteristics of the three)

cause

Features,

attitude

result

be sure of oneself

The goal pursued is real and will not be difficult with others.

Seek truth from facts

See both your own advantages and your own shortcomings.

success

pretentious

The facts it is based on are false, and the goal it pursues cannot be achieved at all.

Overestimate their own

Self-righteous, look down on others.

fail

self-contemptuous

Don't believe in your potential.

Belittle yourself

I can't see my own ability and dare not try.

fail

4. What psychological qualities do confident people have that contribute to success?

Optimistic and confident people can just hold their horses, believe in themselves, try their best to create conditions, make their goals clear gradually, and hope to complete the task of crossing the river. Curious and confident people value their ability to solve problems more, regardless of credit. Happiness comes from being cheerful after racking one's brains to overcome difficulties. (3) focus. Confident people can be objective about people and things, with clear goals and clear priorities, and will not be emotional.

5. Why is self-confidence the cornerstone of success? Only self-confidence can succeed? /Significance/Importance/Necessity)

Ego and inferiority are self-centered, and self-centered mentality will keep him away from success; Self-confident people have optimistic, curious and dedicated psychological qualities, have goals, pay attention to actions and go through the process; Self-confidence contributes to success and is the cornerstone of success.

6. How to build self-confidence? How to sing the song of confidence? )

(1) seeing progress and strengths and discovering your own strengths is the foundation of self-confidence; ② Enhance confidence and strength; Strength is the most important pillar to support confidence.

7. Why should we establish national self-confidence? Why should we combine personal confidence with national confidence? Why do you want to be a confident China person? )

Only by combining personal destiny with the development of the motherland can self-confidence have a rock-solid foundation; If a person has no national self-confidence, his self-confidence is meaningless and valuable. .

8. How to be a self-respecting and confident China person? How to communicate with foreigners? )

To be a person with strong national self-confidence, to show the tolerance and grace of China people in international activities in an effective way, to be neither supercilious nor condescending, to be natural and graceful, and never to do anything detrimental to national dignity.

Unit 2: Be a self-reliant person

Lesson 3 "Towards a Self-reliant Life" [Doing Your Own Business]

1, what is self-reliance? Self-reliance means doing your own thing well.

2. Self-reliance: washing clothes by yourself; When parents are away, cook by yourself; Go to supermarkets, bookstores, etc.

3. Why do you need to stand on your own feet? (Necessity/Importance/Benefits/Significance)

After all, we should leave home and school, enter the society and see the world through the wind and rain. The process of self-reliance is the exercise of our living ability, as well as the exercise of psychological and moral quality. (3) If you can't consciously exercise your self-reliance ability and cultivate your self-reliance knowledge and spirit, it will be difficult to gain a foothold in the future society.

4. Why not rely on it? (injury)

(1) will make people lose the ability and spirit to live independently, and will make people lack the sense of responsibility for life, resulting in personality defects. (2) If you just want to get something for nothing and enjoy it, you will not be able to adapt to social life, and even endanger society and others and commit crimes.

5. The relationship between self-reliance and autonomy. (How to say goodbye to dependence)

Self-reliance means doing your own thing well; Autonomy means having your own opinions and being responsible for your actions. The premise of self-reliance is self-reliance, and the performance of self-reliance is self-improvement. Farewell to dependence, an important performance is to live independently. With the desire for independence, that is, the consciousness of self-reliance, based on the problems in your current life and study, start from small things; Practice more and exercise more.

6. How to cultivate self-reliance? (How do I stand on my own feet)

(1) Ideologically recognize the harm of dependence and take the initiative to bid farewell to dependence; (2) Learn to be independent, which is the premise of self-reliance; (3) Based on the little things in current life and study, do more exercises and exercises. Just as "to know the taste of pears, you must taste them yourself;" Learn to swim and practice repeatedly in the water. "

Lesson 4 "Self-reliance in Life" []

1, what is self-improvement? Self-improvement means being full of hope for the future and always striving for progress.

2. Self-improvement performance (spirit)?

(1) Don't bow in the face of difficulties and don't be discouraged; (2) Self-respect and self-love, neither supercilious nor supercilious; (3) be brave in pioneering and enterprising; (4) Aim high and pursue persistently; Wait a minute.

3. Why self-improvement (spirit) (significance/importance/necessity/function)

Self-improvement is an essential quality for a person to live with dignity, personality and realize the value of life. ② It is a powerful driving force for healthy growth, good study and successful career. Self-improvement is our national spirit, which makes the Chinese nation stand among the nations in the world.

4. How can I improve myself? (How to cultivate self-improvement spirit/method)

(1) ideal, a beacon of self-improvement; To be self-reliant, we must first establish a firm ideal. The key to self-improvement is to overcome yourself. He who can overcome himself (weakness) will certainly strive for self-improvement. ☆ ③ Shortcut of self-improvement to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. Give full play to your own advantages, interests and hobbies, and determine your own direction, in order to break the waves in the journey of self-improvement and reach the other side of success.

5. How to understand that self-improvement should start from adolescence? (why)

"Young people don't work hard, but the elderly are sad." Self-improvement is a spirit and a beautiful moral quality, which plays a great role in a person's growth. Junior high school is the best time to learn knowledge, cultivate morality, increase talents and develop oneself.

Unit 3; Be a strong-willed person

Lesson 5 "Let setbacks enrich our lives" [Failure]

1, what is a setback?

Setbacks are the so-called "nails", that is, failures, failures and obstacles that people encounter. Frustration is accompanied by life; Setbacks are everywhere and inevitable.

2. Reasons for depression:

① Natural factors (natural disasters), ② social factors (man-made disasters) and ③ human factors (school+family+personal factors), including personal moral quality, intelligence, physical strength, appearance and some physical defects.

3. Three attitudes towards setbacks and three results.

(1) a timid person; When you encounter setbacks and difficulties, you will accomplish nothing by giving up your goals. (2) people who are not determined or easy to satisfy; If you can't persist, you can't stand the joy of success. (3) people with strong will and firm beliefs; We should be good at turning stumbling blocks on the way forward into stepping stones, so as to achieve sharp success, realize the value of life and enjoy real life.

How to understand that frustration is a "double-edged sword"? (the role of frustration)

① Negative effects (disadvantages) of setbacks: hindering people's progress; Produce negative psychology such as sadness and fear. ② The positive role of setbacks (why should we overcome setbacks/significance/benefits): It is conducive to sharpening the will, increasing talents and wisdom, and finally moving towards success. (The product "Suffering makes a success" and "Mussels become pearls from illness")

5. How to overcome setbacks? (method/suggestion)

(1) Establish a correct life goal. ⑵ Correctly understand setbacks and adopt appropriate solutions. ⑶ Stimulate the enthusiasm for exploration and innovation. (4) self-guidance.

6. The most precious gift that people win after overcoming setbacks again and again: wisdom.

7. An effective way to overcome setbacks and negative psychology: explore and innovate wholeheartedly.

8. Methods of self-guidance: ① Reasonable catharsis, ② Empathy and ③ Sublimation of goals.

Lesson 6 "Cheer for strength" [Insist on not giving up]

1, what are the performances of strong-willed people?

(1) Have a clear and profound understanding of the motivation and purpose of their actions. (2) Be able to judge what happened calmly and quickly in complex situations and take decisive measures and actions without hesitation. (3) When encountering setbacks and failures, you can adjust your negative emotions, control your words and deeds, and not be discouraged, discouraged or anxious. (4) Be able to overcome setbacks and difficulties with indomitable spirit and perseverance and achieve your goals. Namely: self-consciousness, decisiveness, self-control and tenacity.

2. Why should we cultivate a strong will? (The role/significance/importance of strong will)

(1) A firm and correct direction in life requires a strong will. It takes a strong will to get out of the shadow of failure. (3) It takes a strong will to form good study habits. It takes a strong will to achieve something.

3. How to hone (cultivate/hone) a strong will? (method/suggestion)

(1) We must set clear goals. (2) We should start from the details and start from a small age. ⑶ Be good at managing yourself. (4) Exercise yourself actively in a tough environment.

The key to turning failure into success lies in whether you have a strong will.

Unit 4: Be a law-abiding person.

Lesson 7 "Feeling the Dignity of Law"

1. What is the law? (Three distinctive features of law) (Definition/Meaning)

(a) formulated or approved by the state. (2) National coercive force is mandatory to ensure its implementation. (3) It is universally binding on all members of society.

2. Rules are the standard for people to speak and do things, that is, the rules of conduct that all members of society should follow.

3. The rules for regulating behavior in social life are:

① Morality ② Discipline, Rule ③ Law. The differences and characteristics of the three: morality relies on the power of public opinion, habits and beliefs, and strives to set norms in people's minds; Discipline and rules are norms that are applied locally according to the needs of units and groups; Law is the norm of social behavior.

4. As the embodiment of the people's will and interests, the laws of China regulate the behavior of all members of society by stipulating their rights and obligations.

5, legal role:

(1) specification function. Outstanding performance is to stipulate what people can do, what they must do, what they should do and what they should not do. Law provides a model, standard or direction for human behavior; It is also a standard to evaluate whether a person's behavior is legal and effective. (2) protection. Law is the "guardian" of our life and the guarantee of national life; The law protects people's rights and interests by resolving disputes and punishing illegal crimes.

5. What is illegal?

It is illegal to fail to fulfill the obligations stipulated by law or to do acts prohibited by law.

6. Classification of illegal acts?

Administrative violations, civil violations and criminal violations. Among them, administrative violations and civil violations are also called general violations; Criminal violations are serious violations and criminal acts.

7, criminal law and its role

① What is criminal law? A law that defines what acts are crimes and what punishments are imposed on criminals in the name of the state.

② The role of criminal law? (task) to protect the interests of the country and the people and punish crimes.

8. What is a crime? (Three basic characteristics of crime)

Crime refers to an act that has serious social harm and violates the criminal law and should be punished according to law. The basic characteristics of crime are: first, acts with serious social harm. Serious harmfulness is the most essential feature of crime. Second, the act of violating the criminal law. Criminal illegality is the legal symbol of crime. Third, the behavior that should be punished by punishment. Those who should be punished must be punished, which is the serious harm of crime and the inevitable consequence of criminal violation.

8. Punishment and classification

① Punishment: Also known as criminal punishment and criminal punishment, it refers to a compulsory method for the people's court to punish criminals.

② The types of punishment in China are divided into: principal punishment, including public surveillance, criminal detention, fixed-term imprisonment, life imprisonment and death penalty; Supplementary punishments include fines, deprivation of political rights and confiscation of property.

9. Crime has always been the focus of national laws, and criminals will eventually be punished by their origins.

10. What's the relationship between moral standards and law-abiding (illegal crime)?

If you have a high moral level and a strong legal concept, you will pursue progress, make no or fewer mistakes, and will not commit illegal and criminal things. If the moral level is low and the concept of law and discipline is weak, you will pursue low-level tastes and inevitably make anti-disciplinary mistakes like Wei. If it continues, it may be illegal or even criminal. Abiding by the law is also a manifestation of practicing morality.

1 1. What are the hazards of crime? (Why should we stay away from illegal crime/necessity)

Crime is harmful to oneself, family, others and society, and it will pay a heavy price.

12, how to strengthen self-prevention and stay away from illegal crimes? (method)

Consciously establish legal consciousness, safeguard legal dignity, consciously self-discipline according to law, and be law-abiding; Strengthen self-cultivation, practice morality and be a moral person; Make friends carefully, avoid getting into bad habits, nip in the bud and prevent crime.

13. Why should we make a law to prevent juvenile delinquency? (necessity)

Maintain the physical and mental health of minors, cultivate their good conduct, and effectively prevent juvenile delinquency.