Therefore, I have the following suggestions to share with you:
First, your attitude towards feelings. When we graduate, we can really consider our feelings, but only if we accept such feelings and are willing to communicate with others, so that we can look at each other better. Because feelings are our own business, not our parents', we need to have our own views and attitudes on this matter, otherwise, how can parents know what we really think?
Second, can you accept the blind date model? For the vast majority of college students, they can't accept this blind date model, because at this age, they are not particularly eager to find their other half, but more concerned about their future development. As long as we are good enough, are we afraid that no one will pursue us? So in my own opinion, I think everyone should find a suitable opportunity to communicate with their parents, and tell their parents what they think without reservation, so that parents can clearly know what we think, so that parents will not do these behaviors.
Every parent in the world does everything for their children, so we must not hold grudges against our parents, but learn to be grateful, grateful to our parents for raising themselves, grateful to our parents for giving us a better life, and grateful to our parents for thinking of us all the time, so that we can be filial to our parents with a grateful heart and let them worry less about us. I hope everyone can adopt this idea.