Friendship is a normal emotional connection between people. Since there is a saying: Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, then of course, where there are people, there will be friendship. It won't cease to exist just because the place changes.

But a common problem is. Some people don’t realize that interpersonal relationships in the workplace, like all other emotional relationships, need to be managed with discretion, principles, and management. For example, the relationship between father, son, brother, couple, or even husband and wife cannot be handled well by just messing around. , all need to be grasped with reasonable proportion

Friendship in the workplace must follow three principles (in my own summary)

First, distinguish between public and private

In the workplace Everyone in the company first comes together because of the company's interests and public affairs. Therefore, reasonable handling of official affairs is the basis for all cooperation. It is not impossible for people to talk about relationships in the workplace, but everyone must first have a professional attitude, handle official business well and put it aside, and only then can they talk about personal relationships. However, some people like to confuse public affairs with private affairs, and want to use personal relationships to influence official affairs and obtain inappropriate conveniences in official matters. This is fundamentally wrong.

Second, be kind to others and don’t force it

The so-called being kind to others means that you can help others as long as you do not violate the principles, do not harm the interests of others, and do not harm your own interests. convenient. Help others if you can, say nice words, do good deeds, have good intentions, and don't cause trouble to others.

Although you should not benefit yourself at the expense of others, you should not harm yourself or benefit others. Do not deliberately do good deeds and engage in "giving kindness to others". If you are willing to help, just help. If you don't want to, forget it. Helping is only for yourself. This wish should not turn into calculating in your mind how many favors you will give out.

If you have the intention of "giving kindness", sooner or later you will become mentally unbalanced, and then you may go astray and go in the wrong direction.

Third, there are trade-offs

You do come with an attitude of distinguishing public and private matters and being kind to others, but it does not rule out that some people really want to mix public and private matters, villain. Comparison is not thorough, and the parties come together to overcome differences.

After recognizing this face, I gave up the idea of ??making friends with them as soon as possible. You don’t have to make friends with everyone. What's more, if it is mixed with impurities, how can there be any true friendship?

In short, whether in the workplace or elsewhere, friendship can be summed up in just three words,

Say: "Si Wu Xie"