A western philosopher once said: There are only two things in this world that can deeply shake people's hearts: one is the splendid starry sky above us, and the other is the lofty moral principle in our hearts-honesty. Obviously, nothing is more beautiful and pure than spiritual beauty, and honesty is only one of the manifestations of inner beauty.
A lie is interpreted as an untrue statement. A kind of cheating with cunning and treacherous means for the purpose of harming others and benefiting themselves is malicious fraud, which will inevitably lead to the decline of social morality and disorder of order.
A "lie" itself is dark, while a white lie itself is a lie. Although I took off the cheongsam worn by beggars, I still couldn't get rid of the essence of lies, which meant cheating and hindered honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but often once they are exposed, they will hurt each other more deeply.
In the Code of Ethics promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, it was written: "Honesty" is a very important criterion, which means seeking truth and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving. As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society of democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, stability and order, and harmonious coexistence."
In China culture, "faithfulness" and "righteousness" constitute "faithfulness and righteousness", which is a humanistic spirit and a criterion for being a man. "Honesty" and "faith" are connected to form "honesty", which is a moral norm, and honesty is the bottom line of social morality.
Honesty is the virtue and symbol of the Chinese nation. Keeping faith is the pure land of keeping faith, keeping faith is the success of keeping faith, and keeping faith is that the Chinese nation can last forever.
Hello, hosts and judges!
Today, I am very happy to put forward my own views on the debate whether white lies hinder integrity. The following are our views:
There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.
Mark? Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponent and make your friends feel relieved. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
Hello, hosts and judges!
Please note that even a white lie, as a lie itself, is a violation of honesty. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty. So, I want to speak out here, let's reject white lies and build a credible society together.
Please note that there is a big omission in your defense. We think we should start with the definition to distinguish things and synthesize the interpretation of Kangxi Dictionary. A white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the facts. From the structural analysis of white lie phrases, it is a partial phrase and the head word is a lie, so white lie is a lie in essence. It is an indisputable fact that white lies are often used by some "professional liars" because of their uncertainty. A "lie" itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar's clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of lies, which means cheating and hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but once they are exposed, they will do more harm to each other. As a lie itself, it is already a violation of good faith.
Among the 20-character moral standards put forward in the Implementation Outline of Citizen Moral Construction promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "sincerity" is a very important criterion, which means seeking truth and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society with democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature."
From the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
Asking the other party to argue that it is a lie? How can you have a good impression? ! It's goodwill! Why lie? !
Although a lie is well-intentioned, as a lie itself, it is a violation of good faith. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, making a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
Looking back suddenly with the national spirit, it turns out that honesty is in the dim light. Thousands of years later, it can still be clearly heard that honesty is the virtue of the Chinese nation, just as the Great Wall is a symbol of the Chinese nation. If a person loses integrity, he will leave hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses integrity, it will face bankruptcy; And if a nation loses its integrity, it will degenerate and perish!
Keeping faith is the pure land of keeping faith, keeping faith is the success of keeping faith, and keeping faith is that the Chinese nation can last forever.
Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good?
It's not necessary. Why are we sitting here arguing?
So-called white lies can also lead to unpredictable consequences. Give an example: someone is terminally ill. In order to let him spend the rest of his life safely, his relatives and friends have kept him in the dark. There is no malice or selfishness in this, but it is often unsatisfactory and deception cannot last long. On the contrary, patients lose the rationality of cooperating with treatment and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. Sisera, a female philosopher? Polk warned that such a lie would put people on the verge of a great decline in personality. In the book "Lying, Moral Choice in Public Affairs and Private Life", she wrote: "Psychological barriers are gone, the ability to distinguish between true and false is more vague, and the concept that lies will not be detected may tend to be paranoid." Some psychologists who study lying suggest that anyone who wants to tell a "white lie" to his friends, relatives and colleagues had better think of a question involving psychological reaction.
A white lie is an excuse!
Anyone who uses an excuse wants to use it to protect himself or others. Help us save face and let us endure setbacks.
Gasmel said: "It is quite common to think that you are better than yourself." The excuses people come up with are sometimes unexpected. Why should people deceive themselves? American humorist Ryder pointed out: "Most people don't live in reality, but in fantasy, especially their own fantasy." On the other hand, it is sometimes cruel to know the truth about yourself and your friends. Better not know.
However, most excuses are destructive. If you use excuses unconsciously, you will fool yourself even if you don't fool others. So I ask the other party to realize that more honesty and less excuses! At the same time, I want to ask each other, if everyone has this view, how can we build an honest society and make our country develop further in honesty?
You didn't answer the question of "Three Theories" directly. I think that even if a lie is well-intentioned, its negative effects can be seen everywhere. Why give an example? This negative influence on honesty is often hidden and chronic poisoning. Ignoring this poison is undoubtedly a cover-up Ask another debater, you always said that white lies and honesty are two categories. Would you please give an accurate definition of a white lie?
"Loyalty in China culture constitutes' loyalty', which is a humanistic spirit and a criterion for being a man. White lies are also a kind of lies, just like benign and malignant tumors in human diseases, no matter how different the results of the diseases are, they are all diseases and harmful to human health. So is a white lie. In the final analysis, a white lie means not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and empty words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. On the contrary, "honesty" is a very important norm, and honesty is the pursuit of "truth" and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
Lies are called lies because they are false, untrue and deceptive words. If a person often lies in his mouth to deceive others, he will lose people's trust over time.
Mark. Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponent and make your friends feel relieved. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
A "lie" itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie.
Lying means cheating, which hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but often once they are exposed, they will hurt each other more deeply.
However, white lies and honesty are always contradictory. How can we directly conclude that a white lie will definitely reduce the obligation of good faith?
Another debater, since a white lie is a lie, how can it be white? Even if it's white, why lie? It is better to tell each other directly, why cheat others.
"Keeping promise is the pure land of keeping promise, keeping promise is the success of keeping promise, and keeping promise can last forever for the Chinese nation.
Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good?
Someone is terminally ill. In order to let him spend the rest of his life safely, his relatives and friends have kept him in the dark. There is no malice or selfishness in this, but it is often unsatisfactory and deception cannot last long. On the contrary, patients lose the rationality of cooperating with treatment and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. Sisera, a female philosopher? Polk warned that such a lie would put people on the verge of a great decline in personality.
I think that even if a lie is well-intentioned, its negative effects can be seen everywhere. No need for examples. This negative influence on honesty is often hidden and a chronic poison. Ignoring this poison is undoubtedly stealing the bell.
A lie is always a lie. Is it right to cheat others?
A novelist once wrote this sentence: "When we first tried to lie, we fell into a web of chaos that we woven."
Even a white lie, in itself, is the opposite of honesty. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty.
The "troublemaker" has become a good doll, the students who love to lie have become honest, the "cheating king" has changed, and the "counterfeit money" often encountered in school fees has quietly disappeared. ...
All these changes come from the activity of "Happy Honesty 6+ 1" implemented by zhanggong district in primary and secondary schools. In the early winter, bathed in warm sunshine, the reporter walked into zhanggong district to experience the happiness brought by honesty with the children.
"Sunshine Inspection" Makes Honesty Education Happy
165438+ 10 19, Zhong Xue, a student of Ganzhou Highway No.1 Primary School, wrote a "sunshine check" to his mother. What she wants to pay is not money, but a promise to get rid of her dislike of labor in the shortest time.
The reporter opened Zhong Xue's "Sunshine Inspection" book. Cheques are made out to teachers, classmates and even school doormen. It neatly reads the promises of "washing clothes by yourself", "helping classmates do their homework every Saturday" and "never throwing waste paper again". Each page of the check is divided into bills and stubs, which list the payee, due date, payment content and drawer's signature.
It is understood that in this primary school, every student has a beautiful "sunshine passbook" and "sunshine check". When children want to make an agreement with their parents, teachers or classmates, they will write a "check", write down the agreed content, seal it and give it to the other party for safekeeping, and urge themselves or others to cash it. Within the validity period agreed by both parties, if the drawer fulfills his promise and the person who receives the cheque signs the cheque and writes down comments, the drawer can get 10 points in his "sunshine passbook".
President Liu Xiaomei told reporters that in order to make the sunshine inspection a mere formality, the school set up the Sunshine Bank, and established relevant systems to register students' promises every week, so as to evaluate the students' honesty, and select "honesty wizard", "honesty star" and "honesty angel" according to the honesty level. The school will also contact the relevant service units, so that the evaluated students can enjoy preferential services such as borrowing books, purchasing books, purchasing stationery and playing, and make "honesty" become "valuable", thus further stimulating students' enthusiasm for creative evaluation.
Every corner is a place of "honesty education"
165438+1at 8: 30 in the morning of October 20th, Zhou Shucong, the fifth-grade head teacher of Binjiang Primary School in Ganzhou City, walked into the classroom marked "Honesty Examination Room", handed out the papers, and left the classroom and went back to the office to prepare lessons. In the examination room without the teacher's supervision, there was silence, and only students could hear the sound of burying their heads in books.
When the time came, Zhou Shucong returned to the examination room and put away the students' papers. An exam without teacher's supervision ended successfully.
Cao Kai, a fifth-grade student who just walked out of the "integrity examination room", was very excited. This is his first time to enter the "Integrity Examination Room". He said happily, "This is the qualification I have won through more than half a semester's efforts. I can enter this examination room, which shows that the teacher trusts me very much and I am very proud. "
Principal Zhu Fang told reporters that not every student can enter the "integrity examination room" set up by the school. Only after the students apply, the class puts forward opinions according to the performance of honesty and the school approves can they take the exam in this special examination room.
It is not only a "honesty examination room", but also a place for "honesty education" in almost every corner. The most eye-catching thing is the unique "honesty exchange station", which has a small world of book lovers, a toy exchange station and a lost and found office. Books and toys are donated by teachers and students and provided by the school. After a week or two, the donor can take the donation home or donate it for a long time. Honest students are elected as administrators by themselves, listed for posts, and are responsible for the daily management of the "Honesty Exchange Station", which rotates once a week. "After I donate my books and toys, I can see more beautiful books and play more toys I like very much here." Li Juan, a student in Class 2 (4), told the reporter happily.
At first, some students secretly took toys and books home or broke them. The school did not take a simple way of positive criticism, but reminded these phenomena through the integrity echo wall of the integrity exchange station. For example, on the echo wall of honesty, it says, "Let books and toys go home!" "There is no teacher's supervision here, only an honest mirror." "Please cherish and cherish everything here and return the books you have read and toys you have played in time!"
The lost and found station is a platform for students to show their integrity. Students who find other people's articles will be handed over to the post manager, who will register in detail who found them and store them in an open cabinet. Students who have lost their things can sign the article back when they find the administrator.
Enjoy honesty and happiness
In many schools around here, reporters read this resounding slogan from the bright smiles of children: "I am honest, so I am happy!" " "
Indeed, the spring breeze and other "Happy and Honest 6+ 1" activities have swept the hearts of children. Children gradually cultivate the excellent quality of "honesty and trustworthiness" in relaxed and happy activities.
Ms. Hu, who lives in Hongqi Avenue, Ganzhou City, told reporters that "check" cultivated her son's sense of trustworthiness and played a role that simple preaching could not play. Now, children are happy to take the "check" as a promise: get up on time, watch TV within the specified time every day, and don't talk in class. This check also reminds parents to set an example from time to time and fulfill all the things promised to their children, such as weekend outings.
A teacher in Binjiang Primary School found that the students had obvious changes: at the honesty exchange station, at first, it was often less, often broken and often chaotic, but now the items are placed neatly and orderly, and the phenomenon of damage and loss is almost gone; After the opening of the integrity examination room, there is no cheating in the examination room, and students' self-discipline ability is enhanced; There are many students who hand in their homework on time, but none who plagiarize; There are fewer students littering waste paper on campus, and more students pick up waste paper on their own initiative; Tell the truth more in your composition, write more about your feelings and experiences, and less copy the contents or sentences in your composition.
The integrity of children has brought about changes in parents. Chen Qiong, the head teacher of Class 3, Grade 2, Binjiang No.1 Primary School in Ganzhou City, told the reporter, "When the school started charging, every large denomination banknote had to register its number, which not only affected efficiency, but also was very tiring. Parents also have a lot of complaints that we don't trust them, but some people still register with counterfeit money. After the "Integrity Education" campaign was launched, we never received a forged tuition bill again. This shows that parents' awareness of honesty has also been improved. "