Calm down, calm down and think about whether to save or separate directly. Think about which one of you can bear the consequences. Also, you need to find out the content of his date, whether he did something to apologize to you or whether he just had a meal and got together to chat. No matter whether the two of them have any substantive behavior, what you have to consider is what you want to do. If you are not willing to give up this relationship, don't push your husband out easily. If the relationship between two people is already bad, then give it up. Think clearly which way to choose, and then think about the next step after choosing. If you choose to continue, all you have to do is turn a blind eye, give him time and give him a chance to turn back. It is better to be considerate of him than to mention any deviant behavior. Let him feel the warmth of home, and remember that the better you behave, the more men will hesitate at critical moments. The second is to enrich yourself, cultivate your ability, build yourself and make yourself more attractive, which will not only make your husband sit up and take notice, get to know you again, but also make other men appreciate you. It will be much easier if you choose to give up. Stay where you are. Don't startle him. Since the other party wants to live a new life separately, he will definitely consider dividing the property, so you should get the property before he does it, and make it clear what you should do, so that even if you are separated, you will not lose both money and people! I hope you are the first case. I wish you happiness!