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"Xuzhou" mother asked her junior daughter to take time off for a blind date. How do you think she should face her parents' urging to get married?

Many young people nowadays do not want to get married, so parents often push for marriage. So, how to deal with the parents’ destruction of marriage? Let's find out together.

1. Communicate with parents

The current era is different from the previous era. The current era is that if we don’t want to get married, no one has the right to force us to get married. Therefore, parents have no right to decide on our marriage, only the right to participate. Therefore, when we don’t want to get married, our parents urge us to get married again and again. Faced with this situation, you can find an appropriate time to have a good chat with your parents. Tell your parents your thoughts and actual feelings, and communicate more with them. Be sure to tell your parents your actual thoughts and plans. Let your parents know that it's not that you don't want to get married, it's just that it's not that time yet. After you have communicated well with your parents, I believe they will understand you and will not urge you to get married again and again. Moreover, this will not let parents worry and worry about themselves anymore. You must remember not to antagonize your parents, as antagonism will only make the situation worse.

2. Improve yourself

Many parents push for marriage, probably because they are afraid that their children will not find a marriage partner in the future, so they keep pushing for marriage. So, faced with this situation, you must work hard to improve yourself. Let yourself achieve financial independence and become more confident from the bottom of your heart. Excellent people never lack marriage partners. When we have a certain amount of capital, we don’t rely on our parents’ care. Then, I believe that my parents will not continue to press for marriage.

3. Obey your parents’ arrangements

In fact, parents urging marriage is also for their own good. When I reached the age of marriage, I could never find friends of the opposite sex. Then, you might as well follow your parents' arrangements to get to know your blind date. After all, what your parents introduced is not that bad. They must introduce it to you only if they think it is suitable. If the blind date is the kind you like, wouldn't it be double happiness? Even if you don't like it, you can still make a new friend without losing anything.