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Emotional problems of cancer boys
I often play with cancer and don't know how to express my feelings directly. My metaphor is: "A cancer writes a love letter to a female friend every day. Two months later, she married the postman. 」

How did this happen?

If the love books she received are well written, it's a pity that they are all romantic. At first, there was a golden rosy cloud in the east this morning. In the middle, I saw the old lady crossing the street with her granddaughter. At the end, he looked at the maple trees in the street and wrote her a letter. What are the main problems? I really can't tell.

If you say there is love, it's like there is no love. If there is no love, why do you have to give it if it is limited? If the postman adds a rose to the letter every day, the poor cancer lover will be struck out.

It's too roundabout. I don't know if your zodiac crab has this problem. A strong sense of self-protection will make you always take the initiative to "explore" before you are completely sure that you will not be rejected.

I wanted to invite him to a movie, and the video said a bunch of useless words: "Are you at home?" , "Didn't go out?" "The current TV programs are so ugly!" "I heard that there is a" Living "recently." Do you like Gong Li? "... when you are sure he is interested, you can only watch the midnight show.

Therefore, I want to encourage you in Cancer to speak out your love and invitation. I don't know if he is waiting, he has lost patience with waiting.

If you still get up the courage, please think about my story of "beautiful girl and postman"!

See the right time

Once in a lecture, I received a question from the audience. After reading "I met a girl who was traveling in the suburbs the other day, and I felt very good." What do you think I am a cancer? " "I repeated" Cancer ",and then I couldn't help but sigh:" Alas! Guoguo laughs for 20 seconds.

Cancer and his family looked at each other, thinking more and doing less. May his shadow appear in your heart day and night, in your dreams, and in the lens of your hand-in-hand swimming; After church, I will think about marrying him. When I see the stroller, I will think how many children you should have.

However, these are just ideas. Therefore, your joy and happiness will stop at the direct perceived love, and there is no way to enter a more real understanding and recognition.

So, when you see the right time, make friends with him first! In today's social clubs, there is a lot of room for friendship between the opposite sex, so you should make good use of the process you have handed in and carefully observe and evaluate it.

Find some reasons that seem appropriate, and you can attack and retreat to make friends with him. Compared with the friend who met a beautiful woman in the suburbs, why not find out what her hobbies are? Then invite her to study computer, gardening or interior design. Seeing each other once in a while is a lot of unrelated people.

In short, you must change your affection for her from a direct feeling to a feeling, and if you have a feeling, you will turn it into a feeling. It's just a waste of time to stay where you are forever.

At the time of first love

Cancer's first love is on the rise, which is definitely a TV series of American Qiong Yao women. Obviously there is nothing wrong, it will also make a chicken fly a dog to jump and offend people.

I will always remember that naive high school classmate. Although her first love was not long, it had a great influence. Today, a group of friends still remember it.

Since she announced to us that she began to fall in love, we have been watching a series of colorful dramas like Buddha every day. She tells us her picturesque feelings every day: the grass under the starry sky has a green fragrance, his cilia can always sweep away the haze in her heart, the moths under the street lamp always fly together ... and everyone is so envious that they can't help feeling this love.

Unexpectedly, two months later, the plot turned sharply. She was unhappy at first, but then she complained to us every day about how evil he was. It is not good for me to mention those old things here. What I can tell you is that a group of our friends called to scold the boy who turned love into evil. Because the swearing is really hard to hear, I still feel bad to see him now.

Rich feelings, strong imagination and sentimentality, making these special qualities into the first love of cancer, some surprises, out of nothing, small things become big things, and love is fierce and tragic.

Is this your first love? If not, don't worry too much. It is your first love, and it is also the most worthwhile first love in your life. Love bravely and peacefully!

Time of love

You are in a passionate love, and your mood is "waiting, but afraid of being hurt." Cancer is full of feelings and will never be stingy with the person you love. It's just that the more feelings you put into it, the more insecure you feel. The more you invest, the more you hope to get the same return. This kind of mood will be revealed when it is intentional or unintentional.

If he is an unpretentious person, your love will make him don't know what to return and produce a lot of unnecessary pressure. This is the situation that you should avoid when you are in love.

Another problem you may make is that it is too sticky and greasy. When you love him deeply, you just want to be with him 24 hours a day and never leave for a minute.

If he is a person who wants to have his own space, you will be at a loss if you want him. A little harder, maybe you'll adopt an escape strategy. It's not that he doesn't love you, but that before he knew you, he had a family, friends and a life, which won't be swept away by your joining. If you love him, you have to accept these original people and things. This is the real him.

Falling in love with people in the crab constellation is one of the luckiest things in life. As long as you don't give too much pressure and be too sticky, I believe he will be the happiest person in the world, and you are his favorite lover.

Can a horizontal knife win love?

If we ask Cancer, "How about taking love in a horizontal knife?" The answer you usually get is: "No! But when we observe the love of cancer, we often find many cases.

I have heard several confusing narratives about cancer, which really makes people laugh and cry. Crab crab's daughter A was introduced into the marriage of crab crab's daughter B, and crab crab's daughter B was introduced into the marriage. After the marriage, crab crab A and her husband (ex-husband of Cancer B) had friction again, while the crab B, who bore fruit, took advantage of the emptiness and became the same status as crab A in those years. This complicated relationship between wife, wife, wife, ex-husband and husband shows that cancer is sometimes helpless in the whirlpool of love.

Are you the cancer who is trapped by love and has no self-control ability? When you fall in love with a married or regular lover, you know you can't stand his lover or partner, but you can't help it.

Maybe he loves you very much, but should you also ask yourself, "Can you not love him?" ? "Don't you just want to consider each other in sex, feelings, chess pieces is more suitable than the original couple? You should be more careful. When he abandoned his former lover and dated you, both you and he will face greater social pressure and will have a shadow that will remain in their hearts forever.

If you believe in your heart that it is impossible to win love in a horizontal knife, you have made such a decision again. You made it. Will the feeling in your heart be comfortable Please consider it carefully.

When he doubts your loyalty

You are very affectionate in Cancer, and you spend a large part of your time with him every day. Think about whether he loves you or not and how you love him. How many times have you had feelings?

If he still doubts your loyalty, he will accuse you of some false rumors or stupid mistakes. I think your heart will be more bitter than Huanglian.

"Why can't he understand me?" "Why doesn't he trust me?" "Why did this mistake happen to me? The more I think about it, the more annoying it is. He is angry, but you are sad.

This is the way the world is. Many things are wrong and wrong, which are beyond our control. The misunderstanding has happened, and only a clear explanation is the most fundamental way.

When you communicate with him, there are several points you must pay special attention to:

First, don't get emotional. If you walk upright and sit upright, you should show a confident mental state. Don't let people think you are putting on airs or getting angry just because you are emotional.

Second, please get to the point. Explain the possible causes of wrong meetings and events. As for other details (for example, you lost sleep for a few days because of this, failed the exam and so on). ), just make it clear.

Third, be patient. If he loves you, he must be very interested in your loyalty, and he wants to be 100% sure if this is a mistake. Therefore, verbosity is inevitable, please wait patiently.

When love hits a bottleneck

There are three situations that are the key to cancer love. If you can't break it, you will retreat if you don't advance, and you will fall into a chaotic tragic drama era.

First, you want to settle down, but he's not ready. This kind of love can't be synchronized, which will make cancer feel insecure. It is hard for you to understand that there is an uncertain gray area between love and non-love. What if he finally decides to retreat to an area he doesn't love? When you are waiting for him, your special feelings will make him hesitate more.

Second, cancer feels that it is no longer needed. He doesn't express his love as diligently as before, and he is no longer enthusiastic about you. You think your roots are dispensable. Of course, things can't be that bad. When love enters the mature stage, he will inevitably put more thoughts on other levels. If you think you need more love certificates, don't worry about communicating with others, find a model that you agree with.

Third, Cancer feels that her love is gone. You think you don't want to love him anymore, and you don't want to be bored with him anymore. This feeling is actually a temporary emotion? Or a rational conclusion? What was the original reason? The question is you or him?

I don't think this is the case. Crab crab, the most important thing for you is to find what you want. Look clearly first, and then we can raise our expectations of him, and * * * will pierce the bottleneck of love together.

When an old lover turns around.

How did you break up when you were a soldier If the environment forced them to part ways, if the old lovers turned back today, it was really described as a short story of Roman history, and they reunited after separation, and the ending was so beautiful.

If you break up, he wronged you. If he wants to come back to eat grass today, he will come back to say hello to you. Do you want to accept it in the end? Will set off a series of ripples in the heart of cancer.

I want to accept it, but I feel that old grievances are hard to get rid of. Can I forget the sadness when I recall? I want to refuse, but it is also an old love. I hope Japan's beauty is beautiful and bright, and I hope I can return to reality. It is difficult to decide whether to accept or refuse.

When an old lover turns around, it will inevitably remind people of the past. However, although people are the same person, the environment has changed, so have you. In fact, he has also changed. If you just wander around in the past, how can you tell the truth?

Therefore, although it is the return of an old lover, you should treat it as a new one. I carefully evaluate the interaction between him, you and the environment. If you accept it, it is because he is suitable for you now. Then don't remember hating him when he was rude, because that's not who he is now. If you refuse him, it is because he is not suitable for you now. You don't have to expect to warm the sweetness to the sun, because he is not the right person anymore.

In the torrent of time, we can only move forward. When you look back at your old lover, you can't turn back the clock. Only by focusing on the future can you make the right choice.

Have doubts about love.

"He doesn't love me! This is a nightmare that often appears in cancer's heart.

Why do you think he doesn't love you? You should have good reason to prove that this is not an empty and suspicious hole.

"I went out early this morning and didn't kiss me." "I promised to call me at noon, but I didn't." "He refused the invitation to have dinner with me just to go shopping with friends. In Cancer's keen mind, this reason is enough to make you think of words like "change your mind" and "give up"

Although I am a little impatient, I still want to remind you that you are too sensitive. Can things not be as serious as you think?

I didn't kiss you when I went out, because I greeted him for my good neighbor. There is no phone call at noon because the meeting is open until two o'clock; I went shopping because I came back from America to give my friends and friends a holiday. The only vacant booth is to see the land I used to know very well.

If you really don't know if he loves you, why don't you just ask him? If you doubt whether he will not love you, let him say he loves you ten times a day as a habit. He doesn't kiss you, you kiss him: he doesn't fight, you fight. Take the initiative, at least feel at ease.

Of course, the most important thing is that you should have a psychological setting for yourself. Knowing that love is not only an external wave, but also a feeling of caring for each other in life. When you can see love from ordinary people, you won't ask, "Does he still love me?" 」

Face to face love and the choice of bread

I know a brave female cancer, who has been on and off with her ex several times and led a dramatic life. She loved her predecessor very much, but he lacked the skills to make a living. Every time she is with him, everyone praises the greatness of love; Every time she leaves him, everyone thinks it's cool.

Love is especially important in the heart of cancer. If you want to be a cancer and choose between love and bread, I think 80% of you will choose love.

Cancer man thinks that making money is his interest, so he chose love, and I will be responsible for it. The woman Cancer thinks she can bear hardships and stand hard work, and even earn money to make up for the needs of her family. It's nothing to say that there is love.

I feel that I have a very important position in my life. However, when you re-examine the beautiful feeling that love gives you, you won't suddenly see that real life is also an important reason that affects your feelings.

Male cancer won't choose an old woman who feels wrong for 20 years. The mother cancer will not be willing to be hidden in the golden house for wealth. I especially want to remind the girl of the constellation crab. If you choose an object that is lifeless and has no obstacles to love, you can gamble with the sense of life. These beautiful virtues really show the preciousness of love. However, if you don't want to feel the hardship of life all your life, please reconsider your choice carefully.

Acquaintance is fate;

Knowing each other is especially rare;

A bosom friend is hard to meet, but a bosom friend is hard to find;

Forever friends is precious.

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