Do you know any classic parenting experiences? Many new mothers often don't know what to do when they face a child who has just arrived home, and it is easy to do something wrong to make the child uncomfortable. Don't worry, I have compiled a classic parenting experience for everyone. Collect it quickly.
Classic parenting experience 1 parenting experience 1: learn to respect.
Respect is the most basic guarantee for communication between people. A good father and mother must first learn to respect their children. Every child has a playful nature, and respecting children's entertainment rights is the beginning of your communication. Playing can bring them fun, friendship and good health. Only by respecting children's entertainment rights can we give them a healthy and complete childhood and a healthy and complete student life. Respecting children's right to speak is the starting point of promoting children's close relationship with their families and improving their interpersonal skills. Many parents are used to using their own consciousness to lead their children's behavior. When children make comments, they either retort that "don't talk nonsense if you don't understand" or perfunctory. Let the children have the idea that "my opinion is not important at all" and "I am not worthy of respect". In the later life, I will subconsciously ignore myself and despise myself. Therefore, giving children the right to speak and making them feel important is something that every good father and mother is willing to do.
Parenting experience 2: learn to care
Every parent cares about their children in different ways, but do you know the most correct way? Seeing that children are writing diaries every day, many parents have the impulse to peek, thinking that this is also a sign of concern, infringing on the privacy of children and degrading the identity of parents. Actively take care of children, listen to his thoughts, and encourage him to talk more about his own affairs, not only by "seeing" with his eyes, but also by "listening" with his ears. His friendship, his academic ranking, his heart knot and his pride, you can communicate directly and guide children to correctly understand what is happening around them, which is also an intangible protection and cultivation for children.
Classic parenting experience 2 parenting experience 1: learn to cultivate.
Every child has his own characteristics, favorite things and hobbies, which not only makes his mood pinned, but also makes him feel practical and stable. What a child likes and dislikes is a child's right, and parents often insist on forcing their children to contact things they don't like. It is often counterproductive. Learning to raise children is a very meaningful thing. As a mentor to help children learn and create in the process of growing up, we must first understand their hobbies and protect them properly. Secondly, we should guide them to success. The cultivation of interest and the rendering of atmosphere have a subtle influence on children. Parents may wish to give it a try.
Parenting experience 2: learn to educate
Parents who criticize and abuse their children will never get real parent-child communication. No criticism, no complaining, no beating and scolding, no blaming is the most basic principle of a good father and mother. Children's self-awareness is getting stronger and stronger with time. This radical way has seriously hurt children's self-esteem and lost their self-confidence. The other extreme way is to give children material rewards at will. The failure of this kind of education is no less than the former, which will make children feel "learning for the prize", but it will not play an incentive role. Timely encouragement and rewards will make children more motivated to learn. This is also an indispensable part of education.
Perfect parents are a beacon to guide children to grow up smoothly on the road of learning. After understanding our carefully arranged parenting experience, I sincerely hope that you can understand education, get self-inspiration and enjoy parent-child life better.