Beauty refers to a good face, slim figure, details such as smooth and fair skin, delicate eyes and nose, soft hair and personality. But charm is something more intrinsic.
Simply put, beauty is visible and charm can only be perceived.
Let me give an example of Xiaoya, a former female classmate. She belongs to the kind who is not beautiful, but has special charm and personality, and finally becomes the winner in life.
On the National Day, the students' WeChat group began to get busy early in the morning.
After brushing waves of holiday wishes and various expression packs, I don't know who threw a red envelope first, and then it began to rain. Everyone is happy to grab it. In addition to hand speed and internet speed, all kinds of teasing and jokes are mixed with campus past events, and the group is filled with a strong youthful atmosphere.
At this time, suddenly a red envelope exploded!
It turns out that before, everyone gave out five red envelopes or 10 only because of 10. Some generous students may have 20 yuan 30 yuan, so have fun. At this time, this red envelope is 10. 1 yuan per person. There are 50 students in the group, and 50 copies are distributed appropriately, one for each.
The classmate who gave this red envelope is Xiaoya.
As we all know, Xiaoya has a great personality. At school, because of many things, she was not understood by other students and was not moved by other students.
At first, a group of girls met and wore skirts together one day, and everyone hit it off. Only Xiaoya refused to agree and let others take turns to do ideological work for her. She didn't give in. She insisted that wearing skirts was not convenient for exercise and was not used to it. The next day, when other girls came to class in skirts, all the boys were surprised, and Cai S's unique gray sweatpants and white sneakers surprised all the boys and girls.
But Xiaoya has not been affected in any way.
Classmates have dinner, and when the girl is ordering fruit juice or milk delicately, she orders a bottle of apple vinegar drink by herself.
During recess, girls go to the toilet and have dinner after class. Girls are used to being together in groups, but she has always been used to being alone, running around and walking faster than others 1.5 times.
On holidays, when other girls are enjoying the treatment of the little princess given by their boyfriends, she dives into the library, and when other girls go back to the dormitory late at night after dating, she just comes back from the library.
Later, when other girls were still traveling around with their boyfriends, she had already got the internship notice from the ideal unit.
When she graduated, when other students were still reluctant to go and confused about the future, she was hired as a regular employee by the unit.
After graduation, Xiaoya seldom chats with his classmates. Her circle of friends is mostly pure chicken soup for the soul, a little boring philosophy of life, and some articles and quotations from top successful people in China and even the world, which are as boring as textbooks.
Occasionally posting some personal life content is also a corner of the airport, blue sky or a bright flower.
One day, a mother-to-be girl asked some knowledge about pregnant women in the group. Xiaoya suddenly appeared and answered a lot for the girl. Later, under everyone's questioning, she found that she had already given birth.
On another occasion, when a classmate complained in the group that the work was not smooth, the leader was unfriendly, and the company was not atmospheric, Cai S came out again, criticizing and comforting this classmate from various aspects such as self-cultivation, workplace planning, employee literacy, and company development law. Later, I learned from her unintentional words that she is now the leader of more than 10 subordinates.
This is the charm.
Don't go with the flow.
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