3. Relationship

People are people in society, and their survival and development can not be separated from society. People and society are destined to have an inseparable relationship, so the connection with society is a compulsory course for children.

Socialization is an instinct of human beings, and everyone has this need. Through socializing, we can not only increase our knowledge, but also experience a happy mood, which is conducive to the healthy development of our body and mind.

Children's social development is mainly in the primary school stage.

In grade 1-2, it is necessary to establish a sense of rules for children, so that they can accept and be accepted by new companions, learn to communicate with classmates correctly, express friendliness and show positive communication behavior. At this time, parents should guide their children to communicate with others, and even create conditions for their children to communicate with others.

Grade 3-4, at this time, children should have the consciousness of making friends on their own initiative, and gradually have more fixed friends, which can correctly handle peer conflicts. Parents should actively pay attention to their children's psychological and behavioral performance. When they encounter insurmountable contradictions, we should intervene and provide them with help.

Grade 5-6, learn to establish close friendship, not influenced by peers, and have the ability to deal with peer conflicts. Learn to share happiness and troubles with peers and learn to be a popular person.

Interpersonal communication ability is a problem that parents need to pay attention to throughout the primary school stage. If this problem is handled well in primary school, he can treat his relationship with others correctly in middle school, even in college, and later in life.

4. Sense of value

How do people prove that they once existed, which involves the problem of the sense of existence value.

Sense of value is an internal experience. Only when you feel useful, recognized, accepted and respected, will you have a sense of social value. Not only adults are eager for a sense of value, but children also need a sense of value.

For example, if we cultivate children's awareness of housework, we are actually cultivating children's value. Let him know that he is also a member of the family. Not only does he need the care of his parents, but his parents also need his help. This family needs his help, and he is also the head of the family.

Step 5 feel safe

The so-called "sense of security" means that children believe in themselves. He knows that in the face of all kinds of difficulties and problems, he is safe and he can survive.

The sense of security cultivated in childhood is the source of happiness. Most children with inferiority are accompanied by a lack of security, and there is always fear in their hearts. Do things carefully, afraid of being abandoned when I was a child. When children grow up, they don't do well by themselves, and their psychological burden has always been heavy.

The cultivation of a sense of security begins from the birth of a child. When he was a weak baby, he had to rely on the care of adults to survive. If he gets active care at this time, then he will feel safe.

At first, the child's sense of security needs to be satisfied by the mother, so the postpartum mother needs a good rest. On the one hand, she needs to take good care of her body, on the other hand, she needs to take care of her children wholeheartedly. Children with good sense of security are less likely to have separation anxiety. The most typical thing is that when he goes to kindergarten, he can accept being separated from his mother for a while and will not cry and reject school.

Because he knows that his mother loves him, and his mother didn't abandon him when he was at school, he won't have fear in his heart, and he will soon participate in kindergarten games and play, thus adapting to kindergarten life. If the child shows serious separation anxiety at this stage, parents must realize that this is the child's lack of security and need to help the child in this regard.

Protect the "five golden flowers" on the road of children's growth. May we care for the growth of children and let them grow up healthily and happily.