In a relationship, the most important thing for two people is that they can feel comfortable with each other and be happy together, which is one of the reasons why we pursue love. However, in a love, we feel out of breath, being watched by each other, which makes people very helpless. Are we pursuing happiness or this kind of pain? So there is no need to be wronged in love. Love brings us happiness. If this relationship makes us feel pain, then it goes against our original intention of seeking love.
Maybe your boyfriend does this because he loves you very much, but this kind of love is too selfish and narrow-minded. This kind of love can distort a person's mind, which reminds me of a TV series. This TV play, starring Feng and Mei Ting, is called Don't Talk to Strangers. On the one hand, the man loves each other very much, but he is afraid of losing each other. Finally, he twisted his mind and became a family reporter. I think your boyfriend is likely to have this tendency, so to avoid it.
If he can change, then give him another chance. If he is always in this state, it's best not to give him a chance to hurt you.