Personally, I think this is not an environmental problem, but a human problem. If a person is destined to know you, whether in the vast sea of reality or in the virtual network world, she will treat you sincerely. On the contrary, whether in the real world or online life, if a person is not the one who will accompany you for life, even if he meets you beautifully, he will eventually abandon you.
Real life is really complicated and unpredictable. If I have a good drink with you today, I will turn against you tomorrow. Everything seems to be changing rapidly driven by interests. But this is not the status quo that any of us can change. In fact, who doesn't want this world to be less realistic and this society to be less grandiose? Who doesn't want my friends around me to be as unpretentious as me, and the people who sleep with them to be honest with each other? Everyone has such a wish, but everyone is afraid that they will be hurt if they are too simple and simple. So while complaining about the reality of life and the indifference between people, they all arm themselves, put on masks and even remind themselves not to trust others at all times before going out.
Since we can't change the whole society by ourselves, at least let's be ourselves. If everyone has the courage to be true to themselves, you won't have so many troubles. So when you sigh that life is so realistic, do you really realize that you are not so realistic? Buddha is everywhere in your heart. Don't be afraid of being hurt. If you feel cheated and hurt by being honest with others, don't be afraid, it will always be your wealth and the other person's loss. As the saying goes, there is a god who holds his head three feet high. People are doing things and people are watching.
People think the online world is safer just because we hide behind the screen. Nobody knows who we were in the past, and nobody cares who we will be in the future. We don't have any conflicts of interest and don't involve any secular affairs. But once off the screen, we lose those advantages, and finally there are more and more intersections, which is followed by your real life. People need different things under different environmental conditions, and their attitudes and viewpoints to solve things will naturally change accordingly. No one can guarantee that they will remain unchanged in different environments. Even in the same environment at different times, our values are different, let alone after the whole environment changes.
So I think talent is the most fundamental whether in reality or on the internet. As for your question, I suggest you take part in more social activities and meet more people from all walks of life, then you can be less realistic and honest with others. If you can't change society, at least we can't make it worse. When a person is good enough, he will attract the active attention of others. Some things are actually signs that you are affected.