With the development of society and the continuous improvement of economic conditions, people's ideas have also changed, especially the young people are becoming more and more open. It is no exaggeration to say that premarital sex has become very common. There is a joke on the internet: it used to be cooked with raw rice, but now it is useless for raw rice to collapse into popcorn.
It can be seen that modern men and women are not as serious as before, but more loyal to their feelings. If you can get along, you can go back to sleep. If you can't get along, you can sleep alone. Therefore, many men will not get married until they have had enough fun. So how to identify this kind of man?
First, handsome appearance.
Men like to look at beautiful women, and women also like to look at handsome men. Whether you are Yan Kong or not, the need for beauty is human nature. So whether you admit it or not, a handsome man will never be short of the opposite sex, even if his economic conditions are not so good.
Ambiguity from the opposite sex, even throwing herself at you, is irresistible to most men. What's more, for many men, everything is welcome, and some even fantasize about three wives and four concubines. Don't say single men, even if they are married, many people are still shouting "the red flag at home will not fall, and the colorful flags will fly outside." So if a woman is willing to throw herself at him, even if he has a girlfriend or even a wife, it is hard to resist the temptation.
As the old saying goes, there is no cat that doesn't cheat, and so are many men. They always hope to linger among the flowers. Not to mention those handsome guys, you know that being handsome is also a kind of capital, and there will always be many women willing to approach him.
Second, we will grasp the discretion.
As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient, and experts who often hang out in love know this truth. Because reserve is a woman's nature, as long as it is not that kind of special indulgence, there will always be a strong sense of vigilance when you contact the opposite sex at first. Therefore, men who often hang out in love can understand women's psychology, and then easily grasp the discretion of communication.
They are often considerate, making women feel that they are the most reliable men, thus slowly letting down their guard and opening their hearts. Don't be too silly and naive. No two people in the world are completely suitable. What you feel intimate about is just a little price he paid for sleeping with you.
Third, it is sweet to deceive people.
I believe many people have heard that only women and villains are difficult to raise. In fact, there are two sentences behind, the most recent one is inferiority complex, and the far one is resentment. It means that if you are a little intimate with women, they will be too casual and unruly; And a little distant, they will complain.
Therefore, a woman's heart is a needle in the sea. This sentence is not just an expression. If a man has no long-term emotional experience, there is no way to read and control a woman's heart. Only men who have seen countless women, plus a little higher emotional intelligence, can detect changes from the nuances of women's tone and expression, and then come up with countermeasures instantly. ?