In the TV series, the heroine gets the offer in ten minutes and becomes the project leader in twenty-four hours.
"I hope good luck will happen to me," the netizen said with red eyes.
Occasionally, I will hear such a story:
Helping to sort out the files on the desk of the leader at will is considered to be an orderly, hard-working and observant person, who immediately changed from a small secretary to a department head.
Luck is simple and rude, and logic is full of loopholes.
Similar chicken soup is regarded as a life-saving straw, and many people use it to relieve anxiety.
Sorry, there are no miracles in life.
Some time ago, I screened a two-minute Japanese short film online.
The protagonist is a young girl who is going to the interview site by bus.
At this moment, an old man in red socks and black shoes got on the bus.
As there is no seat, he can only hold the handrail.
The hostess got up and offered her seat to him, and the grandfather looked at her with relief and nodded again and again.
At the interview site, the hostess was surprised to find that the interviewer was also wearing red socks and black shoes.
No ... is he the one who was given his seat?
The line of sight slowly moved up ... the hostess was soon disappointed-a complete stranger.
The interview ended and the hostess failed.
She walked out of the company in frustration and was stopped by a cleaner.
It's grandpa on the bus.
At this time, a few people came running behind and shouted:
"President, why are you still doing cleaning work!"
The hostess suddenly turned her head: Is he the president of the company?
Before she rekindled her hopes, the staff pushed grandpa away and ran to the real president.
Originally, I still thought too much ... The woman gave a wry smile and was ready to leave.
At this time, the president shouted in the direction of the cleaning grandfather: "Brother, stop it and go home quickly!" " "
no ...
Reality hit the face again-the president's brother just stood behind grandpa.
The reversal in the play continues, but the result is no exception: Grandpa has nothing to do with all executives.
At this time, subtitles slowly appeared on the screen: miracles rarely happen.
The short film may seem exaggerated, but it is undeniable that many people will take chances when they apply for a job.
Fantasy even if the ability is not enough, you can overtake by other means.
There are two contestants in a talent show.
They claim to be wandering singers, misunderstood and even regarded as beggars.
Nevertheless, they still stick to their dreams and firmly believe that as long as they don't leave regrets for themselves, it is enough.
Some speeches received a lot of applause, which also moved the guests to tears.
Suddenly, Judge Han Hong interrupted them: "Have you had enough fun?"
See two people also want to refute, Han Hong listed their experiences.
It turns out that the two have been in the entertainment circle for many years, but their strength is not enough for many people to remember.
In fact, under the accusation of the audience, the two men had to step off the stage.
Reality is not a film and television drama. If you are opportunistic, you will often "lose your wife and lose your soldiers."
It is easier to create miracles by improving your ability in a down-to-earth manner.
As soon as Mulan's casting list came out, many people questioned:
Why did Liu Yifei, who looked so weak, be chosen among more than 5,000 actors?
Disney officials gave reasons.
They set the following standards for actors who play roles:
Know martial arts, English and have star appeal.
And they happen to be in Liu Yifei.
The seemingly easy opportunity actually comes from her years of accumulation.
Li Jiaqi, a beauty blogger known as "Brother Lipstick", once set a sales record of "selling 65,438 lipsticks +0.5 million lipsticks in five minutes".
When asked about his experience, he admitted that he had been a cosmetics shopping guide for three years and knew the consumer psychology and cosmetic characteristics of women like the back of his hand.
Li Jiaqi talks about sales experience? /"Like the Intelligence Bureau"
Most of the sales miracles he created came from his accumulated experience.
There is no miracle in life, even if there is, it must be the powder embellishment of strength.
"Miracle is just another name for strength."
Every stage of life can't escape sharpening.
In our subconscious, life seems to have a turning point, and the future after that is smooth sailing.
There are similar descriptions in film and television dramas:
After many hardships, my wife and I came together and lived a happy life from then on.
I worked hard to find a job and reached the peak of my life.
Even the teachers who teach us in middle schools like to say, "After three years of hard work in high school, you don't have to worry anymore."
Talking about "from now on" is a common way for us to motivate ourselves.
Sometimes, they do play a stimulating role.
But more often, it will have a negative impact.
China Youth Daily once conducted a survey and found that 54% of high school students have high expectations for universities.
Freedom, romance and relaxation ... the imaginary university is like sunshine, which removes a trace of fatigue from their study and life.
It's just that the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.
Another set of data shows that among those freshmen, only 0.2% feel that the school fully meets their expectations.
The remaining 99.8% people are disappointed to varying degrees after entering school.
The words "it will be easy in the future" are very inspiring, but they are not in line with the reality of life.
Every stage can't escape sharpening, which is the true state of life.
In the Korean drama "Romantic Body", the work of screenwriter Zhu Zhen was taken by famous screenwriters and recruited as an assistant.
To her great surprise, she swore to her family that she would be a big shot from now on.
Unexpectedly, reality soon gave her a slap in the face.
After entering the company, Zhu Zhen found that writers were very picky and often reprimanded employees, who were scolded for their carelessness.
Work overtime every day, and even take your luggage to work.
Summon up your courage to fight, and you can only get the writer's advice on drawing cakes.
The gap between fantasy and reality is unacceptable to Zhu Zhen.
After working for two years, she finally could not help it. She talks back to the writer from time to time, which makes her embarrassed.
As a result, it is conceivable that Zhu Zhen was fired soon.
Although it is only a drama, it truly records the mood of some people when they first enter the workplace.
I am full of hope and expectation, and I want to show my great future from now on.
Later, it was discovered that it was just another beginning of suffering.
At the opening ceremony in Tsinghua University, Professor Yu Xinjie compared life to a marathon: "I have been running and growing."
Running fast in the next second does not mean success.
You have to endure fatigue all the time and keep the speed at all times in order to win the final championship.
This may also be the true face of life.
There is no shortcut once and for all, and there is no turning point of "it is easy to walk that way".
Running constantly and not slacking off is the normal state of life.
Affectionate person, maybe love rat.
Growing up, I have heard chicken soup not only in my life, but also in many famous sayings and aphorisms related to love:
"People who love you only see you."
"Even if you say a word casually, he will remember it."
After listening to this, I will inevitably regard this affectionate eye god as a model of true love.
In the Korean drama Romantic Physique, Zhu Han met such "true love".
She used to be the beauty queen of a university and was regarded as a goddess by many boys.
Badminton courts, cafes, as long as she appears, she will be surrounded by boys like stars holding the moon.
An ordinary boy likes Zhu Han so much.
He is plain-looking, and his education is not high, but he is very keen on Zhu Han.
At the beginning of our acquaintance, I got the nerve to go to Zhu Han and seriously asked her about her preferences.
Even if it is rejected, it is still persistent: "As long as you answer, I will leave."
Zhu Han casually replied, "I like funny boys."
He signed up for a funny troupe and pestered his predecessors to learn drama.
I don't care even if I am often reprimanded.
Zhu Han was gradually moved by the boys and secretly went to see his performance.
His acting skills are poor, but there is a hidden intention in his eyes, and he even looks a little cute because of his clumsiness.
She believes that boys are sincere to themselves.
Before long, Zhu Han got pregnant unexpectedly.
She had to drop out of school, get married and have children.
Unexpectedly, just after giving birth to the child, the boy filed for divorce.
"This is not the life I want, I want to be happier."
Zhu Han asked incredulously, what about my happiness? "
"Why do you ask me about your happiness?"
If the first half of the story describes the beauty of love, it reveals its true side here.
In many chicken soups, the feelings of "only you in my eyes" and "willing to give everything for you" are sought after as true love.
So many people kidnap their partners morally: if you don't pay for me, you just don't love me?
Paying too much can really reflect a person's deep feelings, but without the dependence of a sense of responsibility, deep feelings can easily disappear.
Like the boys in the play, the persistence of pursuing the hostess is sincere, and the determination to abandon the hostess is also sincere.
It is easy to misjudge the weight of a short-lived goodwill as true love.
Robert Jeffrey Sternberg, an American psychologist, put forward a very famous love theory-love trio after years of research.
It is mentioned that love consists of passion, intimacy and commitment, and each part is indispensable.
Only intimacy and commitment are meaningless.
Only passion and intimacy, feelings will not last long.
The desperation emphasized in chicken soup is often just out of "passion".
Combined with the long-term relationship in the future, you can see if it is true love.
Chicken soup tastes good, but it is also poisonous.
There is a term in psychology called "placebo effect".
That is to say, the treatment given by the doctor to the patient is ineffective, but the patient is relieved because he believes it is effective.
Poisonous chicken soup flying all over the internet seems to have given us a placebo.
We can add a filter to our life and make ourselves believe that everything will be fine tomorrow.
But it is said to be "toxic" because people who mistakenly believe will have hallucinations and be blindly optimistic.
How many people are waiting for love in imaginary chicken soup-
"One day, you will meet someone who understands you. He will not abandon your small temper, accept your willfulness and laziness, and love you without reservation. "
As everyone knows, those girls who blindly believe in love and are desperate for love often lose miserably in the end.
How many people fantasize about having a little luck in the workplace where they should be fighting for strength-
"A compliment from the boss is more important than your efforts 100 times: EQ in the workplace is more important than your efforts!"
However, a leader who doesn't know the true vision will never let a person who only "flatters" but has no strength be promoted.
Many chicken soups just make things worse under the banner of optimism.
Haruki Murakami once said that novelists are professional liars.
In this era of pursuing traffic, the poisoned chicken soup carefully cooked by Duan Zi has made many people miserable.
Many "poisoned chicken soup" that have been clicked countless times are actually just routine sentences and shocking words.
It's of no use except temporarily paralyzing your pain.
It is a compulsory course for adults to see the cruelty of reality but still love it.