Hello. I am a southern boy. I know what you mean by confusion. Now working in your north, I know more about the characters of boys and girls in the north. The problem is that southerners are more reserved, while northerners are more extroverted and extensive. Communication is separated by speaking habits and making friends habits, but the final emotional communication is still the same. Give and you will get back. But southerners prefer to have more personal relationships. If you see yourself like ta and others, you won't take it too seriously. But if you take special care of ta and care about something, you will feel that you attach importance to this relationship between classmates and friends. Can you understand what I said?