Close the distance
The biggest difference between WeChat and the original QQ chat is that it can show the distance between the two parties and increase the insecurity of the target. She is even more reluctant to tell you her work and residence. So try to ask less about personal privacy such as residence and work unit. If the target is unwilling to tell you, you can't force it. Try not to show familiarity with her neighborhood, which can increase the geographical safety distance. Tell yourself first, make her feel that you are a real person and reduce the psychological safety distance.
Talk more and ask less.
Wechat is a complete stranger, and chatting should follow the skills of picking up girls. Principle. When the other person doesn't know your last name and who you are, it's best not to start inviting people to play together. The advantage of chatting in reality compared with WeChat chatting is that the two sides have met and at least had a first impression.