It's hard to say whether it is done on purpose. I have a senior who collects his own study materials every semester and reviews them for his junior next year. I also chat with some schoolmates on WeChat from time to time. Some people think that she is trying to improve her relationship with others, but she is happy to help others. I have also seen some small fresh meat that just entered the campus. In order to have a good relationship with the minister of the club, I send small gifts and have dinner from time to time. I can't afford it. I'm tired.
It's important to make a few like-minded friends in college. But these friends don't need you to please them. What kind of person you are, what kind of friends you are likely to make. Just be nice to others at ordinary times, and learn some skills to enrich yourself when you are free. There is no need to improve the so-called interpersonal relationship, it's useless!
Also, if you feel useless and unnecessary, don't attend club meetings and regular meetings in universities. Last year, there was a club in+that asked to attend the weekly meeting no matter what happened, and then decided to quit.
I drew a picture and listed several reasons why I think it is necessary and unnecessary to improve interpersonal relationship in college.
Choosing to go can improve interpersonal relationships. I think it is nothing more than three o'clock.
1. Enjoy resources * * *. Take my final exam as an example: some courses are unified by one teacher, but the teachers in each class are different, so we should get the courseware and materials used by this teacher. At this time, your interpersonal relationship will play a role. When a circle of friends shouts, everyone will exchange information and spit out the teacher. In fact, the others are the same. There is still a lot of information on campus that you need others to tell you, so it is important to keep good relations with others.
2. establish contact. I don't think this really works. After all, after social work, today's students may not meet it.
3. enrich your life. As the saying goes, friends travel all over the world. Maintain good relations with others in college. Usually, you can invite a few people to go out to play, or you can tease each other under the circle of friends, which will not be cold and clear.
There are still a few points that I think it is useless to improve interpersonal relationships.
1. Waste of time and energy. To tell the truth, a short period of four years may not be enough time for you to really master professional knowledge, not to mention you want to learn other knowledge and skills. Instead of wasting time on interpersonal relationships, enrich yourself.
2. useless contacts. This is actually similar to the one above. If you are capable, everyone will come to you, and you don't have to make good relationships yourself.
3. Against yourself. This is a little big. In fact, what I want to express is that it is not worth the loss to bear the relationship that is not commensurate with one's economic ability in order to deliberately improve interpersonal relationships (for example, inviting roommates to have a big meal in order to deliberately improve dormitory relations)
Step on the villain. ! ! ! The villain is a wolf in human skin. You can't be surrounded by Little Qin Niangzi. She usually seems to have a good relationship with you and may stab you in the back.
In short, you can't deal with people while you are alive. You don't need to stay away from the crowd in order to show your personality, and you don't need to deliberately cater to the establishment of false contacts.
Have time to learn something! Have time to learn something! Have time to learn something!