Children are born to play. But after all, they are still young, and not all of them have particularly strong self-control ability, so they need more guidance and supervision from their parents. In order to cultivate children's self-control, parents can set time limits for playing games with their children. For example, play 1 hour every day from Monday to Friday, 2 hours every day on Saturday and Sunday, and 30 minutes in a single game; Take a break of at least 15 minutes between two games, and don't use your eyes during the break, such as reading and watching TV.
Secondly, make a timetable with your child, listing the tasks to be completed that day and the time that each task may take. Plus the rest time (each time 15 minutes), there should be at least 1 hour before going to bed (if not, the tasks should be reduced accordingly and only the tasks that must be completed, such as homework). This time is the time when children can play games and arrange for themselves. The premise of playing games is that children have completed the tasks of the day as planned, such as studying, exercising and washing.
2. Make rational use of the positive value of the game.
As the saying goes, know yourself and know yourself. Many parents have never understood the games played by their children, let alone how to help them use them and play an active role. First of all, parents can try to understand the games their children play, find magazines and books related to games, and guide their children's attention to books from computers, which can not only shorten their time of contact with computers, but also expand their knowledge reserves. Secondly, parents can analyze the game upgrade and breakthrough in The Secret Behind with their children. In fact, many games are only set according to the time and complexity of the characters. Finally, parents can guide their children to explore The Secret Behind games, and even try to let them learn computer language and encourage them to develop and explore.
This not only satisfies children's desire to play games, but also helps children develop professional skills in disguise. Even if the child does not engage in this industry in the future, it will be of great help to the child's logical thinking and other abilities.
3. Establish a harmonious parent-child relationship.
As children grow older, their personality will become more and more perfect, their understanding of the world will become more and more perfect, and their emotional needs will become more and more abundant. In this process, the companionship and care of parents are particularly important. If children's emotional needs are not met by their parents, what can be used to fill this gap? At this time, there are often signs of indulging in games. Therefore, establishing and maintaining a good parent-child relationship is a compulsory course in the process of children's growth and parenting, which deserves everyone's attention.