This is hard to say. If he is just talking and really wants to help you, you should be able to tell. Just think about it carefully and see if there is anything you really need to change. If you are this kind of person, congratulations on meeting a bad friend who cares about you very much = =
This kind of friend who doesn’t feel comfortable until he sees you sad or uneasy is probably jealous of you, right? My friend, I don’t think I would use such an extreme method when I care about you.
When looking at people, you have to look at their hearts. You can’t just look at words, but you also need to be vigilant.