When it comes to socializing, my previous idea was to get out of my own small circle, get to know more outstanding people, and see other people's worlds.

However, in the past two months, frequent interactions with others and participation in social activities have made me physically and mentally exhausted, which made me deeply realize that I am really an introvert.

Although I am not socially anxious and have a cheerful personality, my friends’ impression of me is that I can chat with anyone anytime, anywhere. However, the dimension of introversion and extroversion is not based on the above dimensions. Division is measured by whether you gain energy from social activities or from solitary time.

To be honest, I really enjoy being alone. Although I occasionally feel lonely, loneliness is engraved in our blood.

And I am no longer so keen on erotic socializing. I used to see good movies, good books, and good opinions, and I had a very strong urge to share them with others. This kind of thinking is rarely seen nowadays. On the one hand, human beings are not the same in their pessimism. Emotions are complicated because they have infinitely small points and infinitely many dimensions. Maybe what you want to express is not at the same level as what others understand. ;The other side is, I think I can write.

For a long time, I felt that I had lost the ability to express myself. At that time, I had too many inner contradictions and conflicts. Fortunately, in the past two months, I have slowly regained this feeling.

Talking about socializing (digressing, I often do this kind of thing, my thinking is too divergent), besides, when you get to know someone, this is just the beginning. Any relationship requires time and energy to maintain. Yes, if you don’t maintain it, the relationship will fade over time. After all, many people nowadays also say that they will stop contacting each other if they don’t want to.

Everyone has a ruler in their heart. Whether you are a good friend, an ordinary friend, or someone you know is clearly measured. Another amazing thing is that whether people are in the same circle and whether there is any need to continue to interact with each other in the future, the other party can sense the subtle psychological changes between people.

In addition, the biggest problem of this era is that no one looks down on each other.

Therefore, there is no need to force yourself to do something. If you force yourself to do something, there is a high probability that it will not be done well. If you like to socialize, just make friends openly. If you don't like it, don't like it. Just be alone and do what you like. There is no need to follow the mainstream values ??of the public.

Of course, these social activities are not a completely meaningless waste of time for me. Because in the process of interaction, collision, communication and experience, your understanding of yourself will become clearer and clearer.

Life is an art about balance, and humans are also social animals. No one can be completely isolated from society. After all, Aristotle said: Those who live in isolation are either beasts or gods.