In the first chapter, the author thinks that with the progress of society, college students communicate with society more and more frequently and in more and more ways. We suggest that the advantages of college students' extensive socialization outweigh the disadvantages. The advantages of college students' extensive socialization are: first, they can exchange ideas with more people and enhance some knowledge and ability; Second, more people can share their joys and sorrows, encourage progress, just like a mirror, reflecting their own gains and losses; Thirdly, we can overcome psychological barriers and improve our communicative competence in extensive social communication. Fourth, follow the good ones and change the bad ones. In extensive communication, learn from them and change their bad ones. The most important thing is to overcome your psychological barriers and improve your communication skills. According to the investigation report of Chinese Academy of Sciences' psychological quality, among college students, 80% are bad communicators, 37% are obviously psychologically abnormal, and 2 1% cannot communicate with others. Can not adapt to the complex society, leading to serious psychological distortion, resulting in many social problems. The key to solve this problem is to actively cultivate college students' ability of extensive socialization, make them adapt to society and overcome psychological obstacles in the process of socialization. However, it should be noted that what we call extensive social intercourse is not promiscuity, but selective communication, which is in line with this important feature of college students. So, to sum up, college students
On the other hand, Yue Qing argued from the beginning: We think that college students' extensive social interaction does more harm than good for three reasons. First, the so-called "extensive" refers to the extensive in China's ancient Chinese dictionary. Is the opponent's debater's "three religions and nine streams, friends and friends" also in this range? Lenin, the great revolutionary teacher, once said "study, study and study again", but never said "socialize and socialize again"! Peng, an all-round mathematician, gave a speech on "Life is a process of constant struggle" in the last 20 days, but why didn't he say "Life is a process of constant social interaction"? Secondly, college students should also deal with society while socializing widely. Modern society is complex and interpersonal relationships are more complex. Where there is sunshine, there will be shadows. College students are psychologically and physically immature and have no social experience. How to look at some things with immature eyes when you are young? Criminals in society just use the immaturity of college students to make friends with them, thus inducing them to commit crimes and making them regret it. What a pity! In recent years, the crime rate of college students has been rising. In 2002, it was reported that 85% of teenagers committed crimes because of careless friends, and 74% of them were girls. Such amazing figures will not make us sigh where the mother's good child is. Where are the pillars of the country? Third, from a materialistic point of view, there must be a limit to everything, otherwise you will suffer enough. Chemistry tells us that hydrogen can't be friends with air indefinitely, and mathematics tells us that a certain series also has this limit. Life tells us that there must be a limit to social interaction. Liu Qing said that although the road of life is very long, people often take only a few steps when they are young. To sum up, it fully proves our view that the disadvantages of college students' extensive socialization outweigh the advantages.
Summarize and state four arguments against it: We think that college students' extensive social communication does more harm than good. There are three reasons. First, the disadvantages of extensive social interaction: the social scope is very wide, and the characters are also various. Where there is sunshine, there will be shadows. In the face of complicated social groups, confusing interpersonal relationships and unpredictable ways of the world, our sight will become blurred. College students' friends are bound to fall into nothingness if they have too much contact with society. Second, the harm of extensive social communication: psychological research shows that contemporary college students are obviously different from adults in physical development and psychological development. During this period, we are full of energy and easy to accept new things, new knowledge and new ideas. However, due to our lack of experience in social life, our world outlook and outlook on life are taking shape, and our feelings are easily excited and we tend to look at problems one-sidedly. Thought is not yet mature. Making friends will inevitably be associated with social heresy, which is a true portrayal of some social realities. As a result, the pure mind is polluted and the imagination is bound. The hotbed of evil in the subconscious becomes dark in my heart. The resulting juvenile delinquency is terrible. Third, the stage of college students determines that we should not socialize widely. The main task of college students is to learn scientific and cultural knowledge. Comrade Deng Xiaoping once pointed out that science and technology are the primary productive forces. This shows the importance of knowledge to people's lives. We should pay attention to cultivating our interest in learning. On this basis, it is also beneficial to develop other interests. It is particularly important to deal with the relationship between learning and learning. Imagine that when we enrich ourselves with extensive knowledge, cultivate ourselves with noble sentiments, precipitate ourselves with rich experience, and step into society in the future, that is, when we will show our talents. Facing one diplomacy after another, you can face it easily. Looking for the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature through the suffocating air is an eternal theme in the second half of life. Then, why should we be so eager to achieve success that we have lost the watermelon after picking up the sesame seeds? Just like when you are dying of thirst, there is a cup of dirty water with some impurities and a cup of cool and nutritious sugar water in front of you. Do I have to put my hand into that cup of sewage and sing, "I'll" clean it "first, and then take its essence and discard its dross? College students' extensive social interaction will definitely do more harm than good. Thank you.
A famous English writer made a metaphor, "You have an apple, I have an apple, and everyone has only one apple. If you have an idea and I have an idea and exchange it with each other, then each of us will have two ideas, even more than two. " This metaphor points out the most distinct advantages of people in communication. Inevitably, there will be shortcomings and deficiencies, which requires us to communicate widely and socialize widely, so as to get help from all sides, improve ourselves, make ourselves study better, make our thoughts progress faster and make our lives full of color. The communication between college students should not be limited to our classmates, but should be extended to a wide range of social exchanges. Narrow communication not only makes us college students lose more opportunities to learn from each other and communicate with each other. And it will make us unable to integrate well into society in the future. Therefore, we should communicate widely and temper our strong will. If you put it in, the more coal there is, the more the fire burns and the warmer the collective will be. The warm collective is not given by others, but everyone's enthusiasm and love. Each of us is a piece of coal, and the whole society is warmer. Therefore, the collective will be warmer. Into our warm collective. Of course, we don't deny that our college students lack social experience, but we can't be flowers in the greenhouse. We should challenge difficulties and carry out extensive social activities, but we should also pay attention to making good friends and not making bad friends. It is necessary to engage in communication that conforms to the identity of college students. Therefore, we think that the advantages of making friends widely outweigh the disadvantages. We emphasize that students should have the best learning environment. It is an undeniable fact that students study in order to have the opportunity to make more outstanding contributions to society in the future. A large amount of money invested by the state needs the vigorous development of science and technology, and extensive social exchanges will inevitably accommodate impurities. This kind of impurity will inevitably lead to the reduction of the national scientific and technological content, and eventually lose the darkness of the national society. The few successes that students' self-control ability can face do not represent the truth. He just explained that this is a successful road, but the road is more difficult. Therefore, we think that college students should spend more time on their studies, which means extensive, which means involving everything. This is extensive! So there are good and bad friends, and since there are bad friends, it will bring bad influence! For example, making some fair-weather friends, playing games and fighting friends will do more harm than good to college students! So we must define universality in the debate! Repeatedly emphasize repetition!