Let's talk about the positive aspects first. If three people have reliable personalities, and they really meet each other, in fact, their friendship is more advantageous, because if two people have an argument over something, then the third person will do some adjustment work like a lubricant. When everyone feels humiliated and humiliated, the other person can take a step to let each other eliminate misunderstandings, understand each other, eliminate barriers and restore friendship.
The famous friendship among three people in history is that Liu, Guan and Zhang became sworn friends in Taoyuan. They met at each other's ends. In the long years, * * * fought side by side and finally established Shu State. The relationship between these three people can be said to be very strong, and outsiders are not allowed to intervene. Although some people say that Liu Bei used some means to buy people's hearts, we can clearly see his pain and anger after Zhang Fei and Guan Yu died one after another. Even rationally, he knew that his decision was unwise, but he was determined to avenge the two brothers. It can be seen that regardless of whether there are interest disputes in their friendship, he is not without sincerity to the two brothers. Such friendship is very enviable. If a person can have such a brother, I think he is a very happy person.
Of course, there will be some negative situations in the friendship between three people, which mostly happen among girls, because girls are sensitive in their hearts, and some trivial things or details that others don't care about will cause sadness and dissatisfaction in the hearts of the third party, resulting in a sense of loss that is ignored. Girls, on the other hand, are usually not easy to say something and hide it in their hearts. Over time, misunderstandings will easily occur, which will lead to the collapse of friendship.
Let me give you a real example. It happened to me. When I first went to college, I had a good relationship with two other roommates, but maybe our relationship will be closer because I had dinner and class with one of my roommates on the first day of school. I don't know why, the third person will speak ill of me behind my back and even make up something I haven't said to my friends. Since then, I have gradually alienated from this girl, because I think she is a difficult person to approach and said the worst things, even if I didn't say anything, after all, I helped her a lot at the beginning of school, and I am disgusted with this ungrateful behavior and scheming.
Empresses and concubines in the palace are well known. At first, Shen Meizhuang, Zhen Xuan and An Lingrong had a good relationship, but it was because of a piece of cloth, because Zhen Xuan and Shen Meizhuang had a better friendship, and she was more self-motivated and unwilling to be mediocre, so she gradually left Zhen Xuan.
Therefore, it can be seen that the friendship between three people does not exist, but depends on three people in the friendship between three people, their minds and personalities. If everyone is open, aboveboard and sincere, but if there are some intrigues, then I think it's better to be strangers and not hurt each other.