First, social fatigue. Social activities consume a certain amount of physical and mental energy, especially when you are unfamiliar with the local people or feel particularly stressed. On the one hand, young people are physically weak. On the other hand, young people are required to accomplish more and more things, and social activities are more time-consuming than before. Young people feel too tired to socialize.
The second is fear of failure. Socialization is bound to fail, so some people will be afraid to start socializing, for fear that their performance is not good enough and they will be looked down upon by others, so they would rather stay alone than socialize.
The third is fear of touching new things. Some young people are always afraid to meet new people, new experiences and new activities, because they are afraid that new things will change, so they will choose to be content with the status quo and avoid new social activities.
Fourth, I am worried that my ability is not enough. In social activities, everyone will change their roles, such as leaders, encouragers, investors and so on. Each of them has his own characteristics. If you are worried about your lack of ability, you will be afraid to participate in social activities and worry that you will not perform well in social activities.
To sum up, social activities are very important for a person's growth, but more and more young people are reluctant to socialize because of social fatigue, fear of failure, fear of contact with new things and fear of their own lack of ability, which not only affects the physical and mental health of young people, but also affects their social skills training, which has a long-term impact. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen social education for teenagers, help them establish a positive social mentality and cultivate good social habits, so as to give full play to the effectiveness of social activities.
Original link: Huaihuai Station