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The girl in the bar took the initiative to strike up a conversation with me, let the girl take the initiative to strike up a conversation with you in the bar

In bars, men are always the ones taking the initiative. But as a man, don’t you want to be hit on? The answer is of course: I think!

Unfortunately, most men don’t know how to improve their charm. At this time, you need to get the following skills. If you are teased by a few girls, you will get used to it.

If you have no money, please be depressed.

(See Love Apartment Season 1, Episode 20 for details)

If you don’t have looks, please have some money.

If you don’t have either, you can still have these things. Taste

In a bar, everyone’s purpose is obvious, just to make friends and have fun. The same is true for girls, even having fun is secondary, the most important thing is to find a man with status.

You can’t just order a few dozen beers and drink them as soon as you enter a bar. Bars are not roadside stalls. They are about taste, and no girl will get close to a big man smelling of alcohol, right?

At this time, you need to show your taste and order some "high-end" wines with high-end names and affordable prices. Pick up a goblet and play with it for a while, put on an expression like Roberto Baggio, and indulge in it...

Just make up your own mind...

In short, bar flirting Girl taste is very important. In terms of importance, it even ranks fifth. Outfit

A man with good taste will never show up in a bar wearing slippers and a vest.

Take off your usual house-dad clothes, straight men clothes and messy clothes, dress yourself up carefully, and start your "girl flirting journey"!

In spring and summer, you can choose a white shirt with outstanding texture, which is more spiritual. The white shirt is versatile, fresh and clean, and is a must-have item for girls.

Speaking of matching, how can we miss out on the pair of denim jackets and shirts? It is also a popular nightclub outfit. Of course, it is a little bit naughty~

Big Gold chain peaked cap, a set for street hip-hop! Even if you don't have Guan Xi's good looks, you'll still be eye-catching wearing this in a bar.

There are endless ways to dress in 500 years, and there are more important things next. Traveling with you

If you want to attract girls to strike up a conversation, you may just focus on dressing up. Friends traveling with you are equally important. You can choose a few friends with good image to go with you to increase your momentum and attraction. If you are afraid that your friends will be too dazzling and overshadow you, don’t look for someone who is too bad. After all, there is a saying that “people are divided into groups.” Girls also want a group of friends around you. No girl will chat up a group of beasts. The prince in it, right? Ha ha. Time

This time is the time you go to the bar. Twelve o'clock at midnight is more appropriate, why? Because at this time, the girl is almost high, and she is also drunk when she should be drunk. It will be easier to have good feelings than when she is sober, and she will be more bold to strike up a conversation with you. The most important thing is that during this time period, it is at the junction of late night and light night, and it is also the busiest time in the bar, with the most girls! Location

Bars are the best place to meet strangers, but not everyone can meet strangers. For example, some honest people sit in inconspicuous corners and can only silently endure tons of harm from around them. When you go to a bar, you must not be honest. If you have to choose, sit at a bright bar. It is best to sit directly under the light, so that the lights can directly illuminate your personality and create a scene of gods descending to earth.

No, girls always like to chat up the protagonist of the party. At least the person sitting under the lamp will look a bit like the protagonist.

If you want to become the focus of girls' eyes without dancing, you need to work more on the above five points, but having said that, places like bars have always been a star-making place. As long as you are good enough, you can become the protagonist without dressing up deliberately!