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Chen Guo, a famous Fudan teacher-a classic sentence
1. Lonely people need to socialize.

2. Loneliness does not seek external things, but only seeks itself.

Socialization is cheap, valuable but not high.

Two people in masks are not necessarily friends.

5. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, and loneliness is the carnival of one person.

6. Truth is the highest nobility, and beauty can only be divided into true and false.

7. Self-reflection shows courage. Self-reflection is the source of all thoughts.

8. Ask yourself: Why do you care about others? In what way? Dedicated only to self-love.

9. Romance is not hypocrisy or utopia, but a rare beautiful, noble and even sacred emotion.

10. If you regard your friend as your boyfriend and girlfriend's backup, you insult friendship and love.

1 1. Many things can be seen clearly in time. Either go further and further, or get closer and closer.

12. The love of the old couple, like air, does not need language communication, but it is very important and irreplaceable.

13. How can I get a deeper understanding and know that I am only valuable to myself?

14. Confess. Let's face it. Wrong is wrong. No explanation. Confess, but don't overdo it.

15. Only those who have a lonely self-consciousness and look back on themselves can have precious friends.

16. People are the most cruel to the people closest to them, because they are too close to each other and often fail to see each other's advantages.

17. Take care of yourself before you care about others. God helps those who help themselves to be completely happy, and ends this bowl of water by themselves.

18. Make friends because you love him. Love him, don't bother him, don't let him worry more about himself.

19. Friends are not vassals and will not just agree and compromise. In reality, friends need sharp edges and sharp edges.

20. When I can't see everyone, I have a spiritual gaze on them, which is called missing.

2 1. In order to create an atmosphere of being a great man → behind self-sacrifice is the expectation of return-I don't care.

22. Noble and true feelings are the only foundation for friends and everything. Friendship will be destroyed by hypocrisy and affectation.

23. Loneliness has no certain form to follow. Loneliness is not deliberately training yourself to have a certain thought or temperament.

24. The tradition of gratitude. Be grateful for everything, and there is little kindness around you. Gratitude is not a "thank you".

25. Loneliness is the most primitive and authentic state. After a person leaves his mother's body, he is never physically with anyone again.

Loneliness is our destiny, but it is by no means a bad thing. When we cannot change our destiny, we should understand it obediently and respectfully.

27. I can't bear to let my friend take some utilitarian purposes for my personal reasons and bring him trouble unnecessarily.

28. He is lonelier than fireworks. Fireworks bloom invisibly and disappear into nothingness, with a short release and endless loneliness.

29. Yan Hui: "Don't be angry." "Never pass." It means that you vent your temper and unhappiness on the door, window, mobile phone or classmates.

Fortunately, thinkers are lonely, and lonely people are extremely rich and interesting, and have the most honest and reliable friends. Thought originates from loneliness.

3 1. You don't need to explain, I know you well enough, so I won't doubt you. Therefore, before becoming friends, quite strict doubts are necessary.

32. Care: The real motivation of care lies in your heart. It is the most unwise behavior to waste time driven by conscience and happiness.

33. A real farewell should have more space for commemoration, remembrance and aftertaste. Not noisy and drunk-verbal violence and behavioral violence.

34. Tolerance: Before forgiving others, forgive yourself and forgive yourself for what you should have done but didn't do. Be tolerant of your own destiny and life.

Don't refuse to accept love, it's not weakness. Don't be afraid to give your love, it doesn't mean losing, on the contrary, it reflects your abundance from the side.

36. "Harmony, respect and silence"-The spirit of Japanese tea ceremony is in harmony with the environment, showing due respect and not affecting its own quietness and coldness.

37. Loneliness is a cage without solace. Because lonely people are at a loss and anxious. Their thoughts are barren and barren, resulting in a sense of self-exclusion.

38. The accumulation of lonely people cannot reduce loneliness, and the group of lonely people cannot jump out of loneliness-it is still meaningless to repeat a meaningless thing countless times.

Friends should be useless. The word "use" here refers to the use. You will feel very free with him. Holding hands is speechless, but I know it clearly.

Being with friends is also a kind of loneliness. But this kind of loneliness is better and more comfortable than being alone. Because true friends are completely unprepared.

4 1. People often lack foresight. Only in the distance to pursue endless goals. People are extremely cruel to those close to them. Take it for granted

42. A woman is using her own efforts and the best youth to maintain a promise. Her vanity is understandable. Anything is cheap if you talk too much.

43. I don't install QQ and MSN, because I need my own time, there is no need to share a lot of things with others, and I don't want to get caught up in some conversations intentionally or unintentionally.

44. There are two types of treatment. One is that interests need to establish contacts, which is only mutual effect; There are also lonely people who warm each other, which is a cheap communication.

45. If you say "sorry" too much, you will not apologize. The real "sorry" is heavy, not only for the people you have hurt, but also for your own conscience and morality.

46. Social motivation: the actual relationship between interests and the future-contacts-utilitarian purposes, using tools used by others, or the mutual warmth of a group of lonely people.

47. Lonely people: Love thinking and reading-always full of interest, the breadth of creativity can bring happiness and lasting loneliness, and make the communication between thinkers smoother.

48. Keep distance between people, and distance produces beauty. The closer we get, the more shortcomings we will see. When two stones are thrown into the water, if they get too close, the waves will interfere with each other.

49. A friend is not a drinking partner, a playmate, a comforter when lonely, a spiritual refuge, or a personal connection for any utilitarian reason. It is often not friends who get together, but lonely people.

50. Friends are luxuries, and luxuries are not practical (gold, beauty). You should be satisfied with this kind of thing, because a true friend can give you nothing but friendship.

5 1. What is loneliness? Loneliness is a disease and a kind of spiritual hunger. Since it is a disease, it needs treatment. How do lonely people find a cure? The way is crowd. Lonely people always need the company of others.

52. Lonely people also like to meditate, like to talk with nature, and communicate with thoughts and souls everywhere. The fun of lonely people is the real fun, and pandering and imitating will only be boring chatting, complimenting and having fun.

53. Loneliness is not posturing, but a state of mind. Silence is not necessarily loneliness, loneliness has no form, it is the spiritual self-wandering of the lonely. Pretending to be impetuous is a vanity, in order to attract attention.

54. Love yourself based on human equality "self-love": the recognition of self-character and development is the basis of caring for others. Only when you know what is good for yourself can you know what is good for others. Everyone is equal, including me.

Friends help each other and learn more about themselves and each other. When we know our friend's true nature, we should try our best to care for, maintain and protect him. But this kind of protection needs no return, or even any response.

56. True friends are only two people. We are quiet, but not cold and cheerless. One more person will inevitably have topics that can't be talked about together. This is a diversion, from an unguarded to a social interaction. The world for three is too crowded.

57. The belief that helping others is the foundation of happiness and care is to prove the richness of my inner world. Be grateful when you accept others' help. It's normal not to help you. Helping you is a kind of self-dedication in his heart, which is worth remembering.

58. It doesn't matter that true friends don't keep in touch often. Two or three years have passed, and the person on the other end of the phone seems to have never left. The so-called "friendship" that needs constant contact is unreliable, because once they don't contact, they will break up.

59. Friends don't cancel loneliness, but teach you how to accept loneliness better so that you won't feel cold when you are lonely, because you have a feeling of being with friends and a feeling of spiritual understanding. Loneliness at this time is a warm state, full and beautiful.

60. Some so-called confiding and punching bags are all verbal violence. You shouldn't use "this is trust in your friends" as an excuse. This is an abuse of friendship. Friends should not bear this kind of catharsis. Soul mate, a soul, he/she doesn't have to bear my trifles.