1. Stay calm: In the face of unreasonable old people, you should first stay calm and don't be influenced by each other's emotions. Emotional excitement will only aggravate contradictions, while calmness can help you cope with and solve problems better.
2. Respect each other: No matter whether the other person's words or actions are reasonable, try to be polite and respect each other. Try to avoid quarreling or swearing, but communicate with each other in a peaceful way.
3. Listen to each other: give each other enough listening space to express their views and dissatisfaction. Listening can make the other person feel respected and help resolve conflicts.
4. Explain the situation: If the other party misunderstood your behavior or intention, you can explain the situation appropriately so that the other party can better understand your position. However, we should pay attention to choosing the right time and way to explain and avoid emotional intensification.
5. Find a mediator: If you can't effectively communicate or solve the problem, you can ask people around you to help mediate. These people can be other passengers on the bus, drivers or station staff. They may be able to provide more objective and neutral opinions to help resolve disputes.
6. Seek legal support: If the other party's behavior involves illegality, insult or threat, you can consider reporting the case to the relevant departments or seeking legal assistance. But before taking this step, it is best to understand the relevant laws and regulations to ensure that your rights and interests can be protected.
7. Learn to compromise: When dealing with disputes, both parties need to make some compromises. Try to find a solution acceptable to both parties and achieve harmony.
In short, in the face of unreasonable old people, we should remain calm, respect each other, listen to each other's opinions and find suitable solutions. If you can't solve it, you can ask people around you for help or legal support. The most important thing is to handle conflicts in a peaceful way to avoid further deterioration of the situation.