To understand what you want, you must have a clear understanding of yourself, not only to understand what your conditions are, but also to know what kind of man you want and the criteria for choosing a spouse. If the other person exceeds his bottom line in some ways, there is no need to waste too much time on him. Clothes are neat and elegant. People like beautiful things. First impressions are very important. Clothes don't need to be heavy, just simple, and makeup doesn't need to be thick, just clean. It is very important to smile when dating. Smile gently, smile with your mouth closed, or cover your hands. This is a sign of politeness. Don't talk too much. A first date can be exciting. When you open your mouth, you talk a lot. However, this will give the other party the impression of "nonsense". On the first date, give the other person a chance to speak at the right time, so as to respect the other person without making the other person think that you are too noisy. Pay attention to your diet. Many girls don't pay attention to this. When eating, try to keep eating gently, keep your mouth closed, avoid exposing the food you are chewing, and don't make a chewing sound. Girls should try to avoid some foods with too much soup, garlic and onions when ordering. Don't kiss too early. You should avoid kissing in the first few dates. Kissing too early can easily make the other person think that you are a casual girl, which will give the other person a bad impression. Treat AA boys correctly. Many girls believe that it is natural for men and women to pay for dating. However, if the man proposes the AA system, it does not mean that such a boy is unnecessary. If you really like such a boy, why did you kill him with a stick? How to pay the bill is just a small problem. Express gratitude in time after the date. After the date, it is very important to thank the man in time by SMS or email, which is not only polite, but also helpful to enhance mutual understanding. I have been on blind dates for nearly a hundred times, and there are countless things left behind. In fact, it's not that the other party's conditions are too bad, or that the fate has not arrived, but that you have lost the fate yourself. In fact, blind date can also find true love, and the real fate is in your own hands. As long as you adjust your mentality, make clear what you want, and bravely go out, you can find your own happiness. If you have a conflict with your partner and it is irreparable, don't lose heart. You might as well add an assistant to your emotional teacher and ask her to help you arrange a counselor who is good at solving emotional problems. First analyze the emotional problems and give you professional advice. /Heart number: Girls' blind date Raiders 2 Notes on Girls' blind date For women, it is recommended to wear a feminine skirt or sweater, which is closer to the ideal woman in men's minds. The principle is clean and comfortable, warm colors are unobtrusive, and the design is foreign. Put some perfume on your wrist, remember, it's very light. Don't spray perfume on other parts to leave a pleasant impression. Try to go to bed early the day before, don't look tired! Don't ask questions about money. In conversation, if you want to know more about boys' circle of friends, don't just ask each other's money, don't just think about your high threshold, hold unrealistic fantasies, and have a proper evaluation of yourself. Be patient and talk to each other on the spot. At the same time, being too "unruly" is still unacceptable. It doesn't matter to laugh with girlfriends, but for most men, gentleness and shyness are still necessary conditions for choosing a spouse. Don't be shy when men and women meet for the first time Don't be too shy Start the conversation with a casual topic. Don't talk too much about yourself in the conversation, and don't go straight to the topic of marriage and love. Instead, we should start with relaxed and friendly topics such as work and hobbies, and gradually enhance our understanding in conversation. In the whole process, try to start with ordinary friends, and you don't need minutes to get to know each other in the form of future marriage partners! Being too formal actually hinders some understandable situations. Humorous, beautiful and temperamental girls, although boys like them very much, make people feel unattainable if they like the feeling of being out of touch. Blind date itself is a good platform for making friends. Of course, neither of them came to show off their capital on a blind date. Boys' conversations should be humorous as much as possible, and sometimes a humorous opening remark can attract women's attention!