Fiona is very popular at school. She is smart, interesting and gets along well with everyone. It is no accident that Fiona is so popular. From a very young age, she tried to be friendly to everyone. She invited the whole class to her birthday party and gave gifts to everyone from time to time. She is a very busy girl and has many friends. She has little chance to be with them. However, she feels lucky that no other girl has so many friends at school and nearby.

But on National Friendship Day, everything changed. On that day, at school, everyone had a good time, drawing pictures and giving gifts. In class that day, everyone had to make three gifts for their best friend. Fiona likes to choose three people from her dozens of friends.

However, when all the gifts were shared among classmates, only Fiona didn't receive them. She felt terrible and cried for hours. No way. After all the efforts and friends, no one finally regarded her as their best friend. Everyone came to try to comfort her for a while. But everyone only stayed for a short time and left.

This is exactly what Fiona has done to others many times. She realized that she was a good partner and acquaintance, but she was not a real friend. She tried not to argue with anyone, and she tried to pay attention to everyone, but now she finds that this is not enough to create real friendship.

That night, when she came home, tears filled the puddle. Fiona asked her mother where she could find real friends. "Fiona, honey," her mother replied, "you can't exchange a smile or a few kind words for a friend." If you really want real friends, you must give them real time and emotion. For a true friend, you must have a chance in good times and bad times.

"But I want to be your friend!" I need to share my time with you! ",Fiona protested.

"Honey, you are a lovely girl," said her mother, "but you can't be everyone's good friend." There is just not enough time for everyone to use, so only a few real friends are possible. Others will be playmates or acquaintances, but not close friends.

Hearing this news, Fiona decided to change her way so that she could finally have some real friends. That night, in bed, she wondered what she could do to get them. She thought of her mother. Mother is always willing to help her. She put up with all the things and problems Fiona didn't like. She always forgives her. She loves her very much. ...

This is the reason to make friends!

Fiona smiled and listened, realizing that she had a best friend anyone could want.

2. My deskmate and I have done these five things:

The first is to go to the toilet together after class. Whether the relationship between the same table is iron or not depends on the "agreement" of the toilet in class. Ten minutes between classes can be said to be quite valuable. Some people choose to take a nap at their desks, while others choose to go to the toilet with their deskmates. I asked you out at the same table to ask if you agreed or not. It's impossible to say no, she will always hold you. Talk about the latest TV series Dog Blood or gossip about the latest relationship between the school grass and the school flower in the next class on the way to the toilet. Of course, pay attention. In order to avoid puppy love, many junior high schools and high schools are same-sex deskmates. Don't misunderstand me.

The second is to copy homework together. What is trust? If you give me your homework, I will copy it all intact. Copying homework is indeed a bad behavior, but whether it is a bully or a scum, have you copied your homework? There are cases of forgetting, and there are also cases of being lazy during holidays. Copying homework is easy, but borrowing homework is not easy. I am willing to lend you my homework without reservation. I think I only have my deskmate. Under the deep friendship of copying, they even do their homework with each other and finally copy their homework together. This feeling is gone.

The third is that they are called to the office together. Anti-puppy love work is the top priority of middle school class teachers. They would rather kill 1000 people by mistake than spare a couple. So if the deskmate is too close, or something goes in one ear and out the other, it will be passed on to the class teacher. Then you and your deskmate must go to the office! Even if you are innocent, you should go to the class teacher for tea. Although it is a misunderstanding, the class teacher's continuing education will not stop, and we should talk about things from time to time. There is no embarrassment between the opposite sex deskmates, because both sides know that they are "brothers" and talk about learning rather than feelings.

The fourth is * * * listening to music with headphones. Listening to music is a good way to relax. A person is immersed in the world of music, emptying everything and pursuing his own heart. During lunch break, put on headphones at your desk and listen to the songs of your favorite singer, and your troubles and discomfort will be forgotten. Then would you like to use headphones with your deskmate, each wearing an earplug and listening to the same music? Different personalities, different interests, different singers and different musical styles. First, you can share headphones. After all, it is a personal item, so you are willing to enjoy music and find the same fun. Finally, listening to music in one ear is not very good. Isn't this a sign of sincere friendship?

Fifth, they took selfies together. Now middle school students who have smart phones are basically equipped with one. Mobile phones should be students' tools, not toys. Mobile phones are convenient to communicate with parents, then scientifically and effectively assist learning, and finally students can relax and entertain appropriately. Taking pictures is another major function of mobile phones. Take a photo for one minute and one hour. Is there a selfie with your deskmate in the photo album? Taking photos is very contradictory to some people, let alone taking selfies with people who are unfamiliar and unwilling to associate. The deeper the feelings at the same table, I believe there will be more selfies in the album.

3. Friendship of Chondrogenic Teenager: Hong Qiang, a classmate, carried him to school for four years.

In Shunde Chencun Vocational and Technical School, Xiao Jian, from E-commerce 182 class, suffered from rickets since childhood, and his body was "curled up", making it difficult for him to take care of himself. However, Xiao Jian's classmate Hong Qiang took care of his daily life and sent him to school. This hug is four years.

"I hold him very steadily, and he will be fine." It is reported that their story touched the whole school. At the same time, Xiao Jian's strong and optimistic attitude also infected everyone around him, and changed others' strange eyes on patients with rare diseases. It is reported that excellent Xiao Jian has excellent grades and is full of expectations for the future. "The most grateful thing is that he gave me a stable friendship." Xiao Jian said.

As the school bell rang in the afternoon, Xiao Jian and Hongqiang agreed to return to the dormitory after simply packing their books. Xiao Jian, 16 years old, has been suffering from rickets since childhood. The disease deformed Xiao Jian's bones and made his body "curl up". The height is not enough 1 m, so it is extremely inconvenient to move and it is difficult to take care of yourself. Hong Qiang, whose height is1.75m, is strong and has become a solid "backing" of Xiao Jian school.

After class, Hong Qiang walked in front, followed by Xiao Jian. Before reaching the stairs, Hong Qiang leaned forward, skillfully picked up the thin and short Xiao Jian and brought him safely downstairs. On the stairs on the first floor, Hongjiang put Xiao Jian down from his arms. Xiao Jian rode his bicycle parked on the stairs and joined his good brother Hongjiang in the crowd after school.

Hong Qiang, also a student of Chencun Vocational School, held him to school for four years. "This is a responsibility." Hong Qiang told reporters. The reporter learned that at school, due to the particularity of Xiao Jian's body, Hong Qiang also undertook the heavy responsibility of taking care of his life. "He helped me do a lot of things. For example, he helps me wash clothes and hang clothes. After dinner, he helped me clean the dishes and chopsticks. Because I was inconvenient to move, he carried me upstairs and downstairs, went to various places in the school, and sometimes took me for a walk on campus. " Xiao Jian said.

Hong Qiang took care of Xiao Jian meticulously and tirelessly, which also touched the whole school. The reporter learned that their spirit of mutual help even infected other students, and the class atmosphere in their class was also very good. "These are all responsibilities. If he needs it, I will help him. " Hong Qiang said.

In order not to let Xiao Jian feel lonely when eating alone, Hong Qiang cooperates with Xiao Jian to eat in the dormitory every time. "I gave my aunt and his meal card, so I don't have to bother to take him to the canteen." Hong Qiang said.

When eating, the two exchanged the happiness of class together. It is touching that it is "a habit in life" for two people to accompany each other to eat.

"When I was in grade one, I was in the same class with him. Later, the teacher named me to take care of him. I was reluctant at first, but I got used to it after I took care of it. " Hong Qiang recalled his acquaintance with Xiao Jian four years ago. He said, "when I first took care of him, others would look at him differently, but I can't ignore him because of this." Later, I got used to it and never worried about what others thought. "

In four years, Xiao Jian and Hongqiang became "iron buddies", and inseparable is their characteristic. At school, their roommates and other students in the school will envy their long-term and "stable" brotherhood.

"If I call in sick and don't come to school, I will definitely ask the teacher to arrange a roommate or classmate to take care of him in advance." Hong Qiang said that in recent years, even if he is not around Xiao Jian, he will be worried. "What if his clothes are not washed? If he goes to the stairs, no one will carry him downstairs? "

"Sometimes holidays are not at school, and we will communicate through WeChat if we don't meet." Hong Qiang said that the two will exchange mobile games and seek inspiration from Xiao Jian. "He is a schoolmaster, and he will definitely want something from him academically." Hong Qiang said with a smile.

"His grades must be above average in the class." Speaking of Xiao Jian, Huang Xinglong, the head teacher of their class, appreciates it. Entering senior one, Xiao Jian passed the "X" professional exam in the 3+X exam, which is known as the "College Entrance Examination for Secondary Vocational Schools". "It is not easy to pass the first year of high school, but also to make achievements in his special physical condition." Huang Xinglong said that this has something to do with Xiao Jian's efforts at school.

"In order to facilitate his study, we arranged him in the first row. So he is closer to the teacher and closer to the blackboard. " In the classroom, due to the particularity of the body, Xiao Jian "kneels" in the chair for class. The reporter saw that serious Xiao Jian often craned his neck in class and looked at every knowledge point on the blackboard.

"In fact, before Xiao Jian decided to come to our class, I had some concerns in my heart." Huang Xinglong said that at that time, he was mainly worried that he would not get good care at school. "This student's physical condition is quite special. In the process of going to school, the school should pay more attention to him. "

Nevertheless, Huang Xinglong said that after learning about Xiao Jian's strong thirst for knowledge and independent spirit, he decided to gladly accept him as a member of the class. "After all, it is not easy for him to make the decision to continue studying." Huang Xinglong said that Xiao Jian has been integrated into the class collective with a very positive attitude since he entered school for nearly a school year. "He is strong, sunny and bold, and he is not timid when encountering problems."

The students in the class also said that Xiao Jian was humorous and optimistic. "Everyone is infected and will not treat him differently because of his special body." Li Tongxue, who is in Xiao Jian's class, also told reporters that Xiao Jian would often "learn from the scriptures" with him because of his excellent grades.