1. It is easy to give up, but you will gain nothing in the end. It’s harder to persevere, but you’ll definitely gain something in the end. Don't wait for me to cry before you understand my sadness. Don't wait for me to disappear before you know I exist. The weakest part of a person is his reluctance to let go. I can’t bear to part with a wonderful scenery and travel companions. Just when we can't bear to leave, the best days pass away without mercy. Life is endless, and the world of mortals is endless.
2. One day you will understand that kindness is harder than being smart. Learning to accept imperfections is the maturity of life. A person who is always grateful will be happy to himself and others; a person who is always appreciative will be happy to himself and others. The real unrestrainedness is to be proactive, optimistic, carefree, fearless, relaxed and happy, which is the unrestrained and happy life.
3. Don’t think of life as too difficult. The most important thing in life is not the result, but the process of life. The past is like a movie, some are passionate, colorful, some are black and white, some are mottled, blurry, and clear. Everything has become history. Even if you look back, you will only continue to watch it. of repetition.
4. A simple life is a happy life. People must understand that contentment is always a happy life. There is nothing that cannot be let go. All sadness, pain, and all things that cannot be given up are just a transition in life. , you can become more exciting if you skip it.
5. There is a time in life that you must have, but there is no time in life, so don’t force it. Life is about joy and sorrow, life is about bitterness and sweetness. Whether it's prosperous or desolate, don't be too nostalgic for the scenery you've seen. After all, if you don't move forward, life has to move forward. No matter how big the pain is, you can forget about it as soon as you sleep. Carrying yesterday and chasing tomorrow will exhaust every moment. Only by forgetting while walking can you feel every happiness and trouble that comes your way. Only by staying overnight can you be happy if you forget.
6. When the heart is clear, everything is bright; when the heart is turbid, everything is dark. The mind is obsessed with all delusions, and the mind is enlightened with all Zen. The heart is the director of the drama of life, and the mind is the film of life's environment. The root of everything is in the heart. Infatuation and persistence, resentment and hatred will only make the heart churn and make people uneasy. Only by letting go of them can you feel relaxed and natural. The gap between wisdom and foolishness is the same as the gap between heaven and hell. Let go of worries and achieve Bodhi. When your mood changes, your mind will be at peace in a sunny day, and you will be able to grow lotuses step by step.
7. What is true letting go? It means that one day, when you face the embarrassment of your past again, you hate the angry person, your heart is calm, you no longer have any thoughts, face it calmly, and laugh it off. Even when other people retell your past misfortunes in front of you, you seem to be listening to other people's stories, letting go without even a ripple in your heart, nothing like this.
8. When I was young, I dreamed of changing the world; when I matured, I found that I could not change the world, so I shortened my sights and decided to only change my country; when I entered my twilight years, I found that I The country cannot be changed. My last wish is just to change the family, but this is also impossible. As he was dying, I suddenly realized: If I had only changed myself at the beginning, I would have changed my family, my country and even the world.
9. Straight-tempered people don’t know how to deal with others. They don’t know what to say when meeting strangers, and they can easily offend others. But the more straight-tempered you are, the more worthy of making friends you are. Because there is no good without reason in this world, but there is bad without reason. The various overtures he made when we first met were probably all being held back to hurt you. People who really care about you will be picky when nothing happens, but will hold your hand and say nothing when something happens. Supervise you through good times and support you through adversity. Three or two people in life are enough!
10. When everyone is young, they want to leave their parents. The farther away, the better, unconsciously You have really walked a long way, separated from them by thousands of mountains and rivers. One day you will suddenly look back and you will find that no matter how far you go, there is always a thread connecting you and them. By that time, your parents have become old and their legs and feet are no longer agile. So you turn around and return to them. The difference is that you become an adult and they become children.