Old Beijing.

This is a seemingly ordinary but extremely unusual title.

Speaking in a Beijing accent, humming a Beijing rhyme, and telling some Beijing past events are just superficial skills. If you look at it from the bottom up, there are probably not many people in Kyoto who are proud and arrogant, but are sincere and enthusiastic to their relatives and friends, more respectful and filial to their elders and parents, and who inherit and embody the Chinese cultural traditions. . And this kind of character can be called the majestic and authentic old Beijing.

Mr. Hao Jinming is an authentic old Beijinger!

Successful in career, but extremely humble.

Sincere, generous, enthusiastic and generous.

This is the first time we met Mr. Hao Jinming, and the impression he left on us.

He did not talk about the glory of his life in a high-profile manner, nor talked about his career achievements with pride.

Our conversation was like a babbling stream - pure and sweet.

Hao Jinming talks about filial piety

He described it with sincerity and sincerity: Filial piety comes first among all good deeds, and filial piety is an excellent virtue that every descendant of the Yan and Huang Dynasties must inherit. What you have done is what you should do; doing better is a promotion of morality and filial piety and a contribution to society.

He said that filial piety has three major responsibilities. One is to carry on the family line, which is also the continuation of life. As the saying goes, there are three types of unfilial piety, the greatest of which is not having offspring. From ancient times to the present, human beings have relied on the continuation and evolution of life. For us personally, our parents gave us life. Faced with the roles of wives and husbands, it is our unshirkable responsibility to carry on the family line and satisfy the wishes of the elderly. The second is to repay kindness and kindness. The crow feeds back, and the lamb kneels to breastfeed. Even animals can do this, not to mention humans who are the spirits of all things? Our parents gave us life, brought us up, and gave us a happy marriage and a happy family. So, how should we repay our four elders as they grow older? Let me answer, that is the word filial piety! Filial piety, with the prefix "老" on the top and "子" on the bottom, means that as children, we must support and raise the elderly. It is our responsibility to make the elderly happy and healthy. Respecting the elderly is a special attitude towards the elderly, with awe and reverence, so that the elderly can be happy, happy, and contented, and put the elderly as the center. This is filial piety. The third is to do things for others. A friend said that to make friends, you must first see whether the other person is filial to the elderly. He said, can a person who is not filial to his parents still be loyal to his friends? In fact, the principle is as simple as benevolence, justice, propriety, wisdom, and trust. If there is no word of filial piety to support it, then everything will be fake and change the taste. Parents are our foundation. How we treat our parents is how we express the excellent qualities of our family and is also a thermometer for the outside world to recognize us. Treating parents well and treating others sincerely should be the most basic qualities of children and people with lofty ideals in the world.

Hao Jinming talks about his parents

"The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the child wants to be raised but cannot be kissed..." Hao Jinming murmured, with tears in his eyes, full of thoughts. The affection of a dear friend, looking forward, as if approaching the depths of memory.

He lit a cigarette and blew out a cigarette gently, and our thoughts slowly entered Hao Jinming's memory...

Hao Jinming had lost his memory since he was a child. Father, in his memory, father was just a legend told by his mother. In his mother's rambling conversation, he learned about his father's upright character, chivalrous character, and versatile skills...

He said that his father's character was like a blinking beacon, In the ocean of his life, it illuminated his direction and became his role model for how to behave.

Like other people of the same age in *** and the country, Hao Jinming’s family was also very poor when he was a child. As long as he can remember, his mother seemed to have never slept, and it seemed that all he could see was her busy figure.

Hao Jinming has six sisters, and he is the youngest. His mother was particularly fond of him, and his brothers and sisters also protected him. However, a poor family gave birth to a filial son.

Although Hao Jinming is doted on by his family, he still feels the influence of his mother and appreciates the joy of kindness...

Such a given picture always appears before our eyes:

The mother and the children were eating in the courtyard, and a voice came from outside the gate: "Sister-in-law, I am so pitiful, please give me some buns..."

The mother broke off half of the buns and looked at the children, big and small. , still hesitating whether to give it to him, the youngest Hao Jinming took half a bun from his mother's hand and ran out, giving it to the beggar outside the door.

The beggar touched Hao Jinming's head with emotion and said, "This child will definitely have a future when he grows up!"

Hao Jinming said, "If you don't have enough to eat, I will give you more." You take a piece."

Later, Hao Jinming grew up, and his mother grew older.

Hao Jinming, who has many sisters, does not have many opportunities to honor his mother. He only visits his mother during holidays or commuting to and from get off work, or has a meal to make his mother smile.

Later, Hao Jinming made money, and he took care of all his mother’s living expenses. Although he has three sisters and two brothers, he always thinks that they have a hard time making money and he should contribute more.

After 2000, Hao Jinming was often seen in front of his mother's door with his wife and son, carrying a change of clothes for his mother, and a changing supply of fruits or pastries. It turned out that Hao Jinming's mother was paraplegic and lying in a hospital bed. He took the lead and followed an example, accompanying her day and night with his wife and several children, taking turns taking care of her.

Every Saturday, the sound of singing would come from her mother’s room. It turned out that Hao Jinming, his wife and son were singing for his mother.

The eldest Hao Jinming, like a child, clings to his mother's chest, and his elderly mother also hugs Jin Ming. At this time, no one spoke, they all closed their eyes, quietly enjoying the most pure and beautiful feelings in the world.

Later, Hao Jinming said that cuddling in his mother’s arms made him feel most at ease.

In 2004, when his mother passed away, Hao Jinming did not cry, but silently held his mother’s hand until the last journey...

Hao Jinming talks about his parents-in-law

My father-in-law and mother-in-law are all excellent Communist Party members! They directly affect my life and work.

This was the impression the two old men had on Hao Jinming.

The father-in-law is an old soldier, and the mother-in-law is an old police officer. After they retired, they lived in the military rest home. Hao Jinming, who was gradually getting rich, kept his mansion empty, in order to provide for the old man's life in his later years. To be happy and happy, he would rather live with them for more than 20 years regardless of what outsiders say.

My father-in-law passed away in 2007 at the age of 90.

Before his retirement, my father-in-law participated in the political affairs of the Republic of China and had a successful career. He was honest and clean throughout his life.

For Hao Jinming, his father-in-law was both a senior and a mentor. He not only had a subtle influence on Hao Jinming, but also taught him earnestly. Before he was 80 years old, he was in good health and would not bother others with anything, including doing laundry, moving things, etc. After the age of 80, I gradually become unable to take care of myself such as bathing and washing feet due to physical reasons.

One day, Hao Jinming took his old father-in-law to the bathhouse, and they took a bath together in the large pool in the hazy white mist. Hao Jinming picked up the bath towel and gave his old father-in-law a bath. The old man's body stiffened visibly, and then he stopped talking, closed his eyes, and silently enjoyed his son-in-law's service...

The old man's body has scars from knives and guns, which seem to be silently telling the years of gunfire and the arduous struggle. Even though Hao Jinming is a tough guy, his hands can't help but tremble. He just takes a bath, Hao Jinming It took Jin Ming nearly an hour.

After that, the old man opened his heart to Hao Jinming and would talk to Hao Jinming about anything.

When Hao Jinming became a member of the Beijing CPPCC Committee for the first time, he excitedly reported to his father-in-law, holding the sacred CPPCC member certificate: "Old man, I have made progress! Look..." The old man He happily took the certificate, looked at it, and touched it, as if he had received it.

Later, the old man's smile gradually disappeared, and he said to Hao Jinming seriously: "Jin Ming, from today on, what you say and do must be consistent with this certificate. Don't spend too much money in the future. Time is spent at home to show filial piety to this old man like me. As a man, true filial piety should be to serve the party and the country more and repay the society with gratitude, especially us Beijingers and the entire Chinese nation! ”

Hao Jinming also put away his smile in an instant, and said to the old man solemnly and respectfully: "Dad, I will definitely do it!"

Hao Jinming said, these words still feel heavy to me. Since then, whether I have served as a member of the Standing Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, as the Vice Chairman of the Folk Artists Association, or as the Vice Chairman of the Federation of Industry and Commerce, I have also worked in the literary and art circles, as a film and television actor, and in writing and filming the TV series "Under the Zhengyang Family". Wait, the old man’s words have always reminded me that everything I say and do must be consistent with my status as a member of the CPPCC. I will remember this sentence for the rest of my life, and I will benefit from it for the rest of my life. It seems like a common saying, but actually doing it and persevering is unusual. If you do this, you will always be able to make progress, and you will always be able to make progress. This should be said to be what the old father-in-law sees as a man. This level can also be said to be that of an old man. Later, when I educated my children, I always wanted to pass on these excellent traditions and virtues.

When mentioning mother-in-law, what appeared in front of Hao Jinming was an animation: at 7:30 in the morning, a 90-year-old old lady knocked on the door with a serious face and shouted: "Hurry up, go to work. Go to work!"

It turns out that my mother-in-law is an old police officer. Her strict discipline over the years has made her develop a good habit of going to and from get off work on time. She wakes us up every day, prepares breakfast for us, and counts us. The distance and time to work, and then urging us to leave within the calculated time. It’s been like this for decades.

Although the old lady lives a rigorous life, she has a wide range of interests and hobbies. Since her retirement, she has fallen in love with writing and painting, and she has persisted. Later, her works also participated in the calligraphy and painting exhibition of the Olympic Games and were published. My own picture album. The old lady not only insisted on writing and drawing, but also bought us pens and paper so that we could practice calligraphy together. When he saw that I had written well, he praised me!

The old lady used to do party work in the public security organ. Every time I made progress, she would take the initiative to talk to me, and the content of the conversation was the party's requirements. But one thing touched me very much. She said, we Communists are trying to conquer the world to let the people live a happy life. Now, our lives are carefree, but many families are still facing various problems. Difficulties, Jin Ming, you are now successful and have your own career. If you have the opportunity, do good deeds and help those who are in difficulty and need help!

These words are very good. Simple, yet touching. In fact, Hao Jinming had already done this quietly. In his early years, he adopted disabled people as sons and helped many families in need. Not long ago, he was awarded the Caring Person Award by the "Qu Zheng Love Foundation" for sponsoring two children with congenital heart disease. For more than ten years, in order to minimize the loss of national cultural relics, antiques and jewelry abroad, he did his best to protect and collect cultural relics and antiques. It can be said that he went through untold hardships, spent more wealth, invested, learned and collected many rare treasures, and took the lead in He founded the elegant and grand Shang Yunxuan Museum in Beijing. In order to devote himself to saving children with leukemia, he even used all the 20 yuan tickets for the Shang Yunxuan Museum he invested in as charity. , donated directly to the Red Cross for the relief of children with leukemia.

Hao Jinming said that positive energy makes everyone’s heart happy. It is our responsibility to help children. It is our responsibility to be grateful and caring for the society and more people around us who need help. This is Every capable person alive should have a conscience. If more capable people have this responsibility and conscience, society will be better.

Good filial piety supports the family, and virtue and filial piety are passed down to the family.

Hao Jinming was able to respect and be filial to the elderly. He was connected with the elderly at the spiritual level, and did what he should do as a son of man. In terms of ideological and moral principles, he made common people "worry about the world's worries first, and then enjoy the world's happiness." The series of endless touching deeds of "And Le" are really good examples that we should learn from and learn from.