How to strike up a conversation? The advantage of chatting up a girl is that you can quickly understand her attitude towards you, and also exercise your eloquence, courage and language expression ability. Many people think that girls will undoubtedly refuse me if I strike up a conversation like this. This is your subjective idea. Doing business is risky, and I will undoubtedly lose money if I go into business. Doing business requires a lot of money, and my assets are few. There is no doubt that I can't afford it. But the objective fact is that no one can really guarantee that you can't. So believe in yourself first.
First of all, let's think about what kind of people you can accept if you are a girl. Cynicism? Laughing at you with a cigarette in your mouth? Everyone knows that it is not easy to accept this kind of thing, so most of them will be polite and sincere smiling boys. Because girls don't have a high sense of belonging to this society, they need a strange man to give her a sense of belonging before they can have the next step.
So now let's talk about how to strike up a conversation with the greatest pass rate, in two steps.
1./p & gt；
2. reasons
This is the first sentence you said to a girl. Ordinary people's opening remarks are, hello or beauty or something. This is the most unpleasant opening remarks in Xiao Qing's eyes, and it is also the words that girls hear most about selling products. Therefore, we strongly recommend that you use simple and direct words.
For example, hey, I think I should come back and get to know you.
The advantage of this immediate gradual change is that girls can eliminate their worries faster and it is not easy to hear the first sentence. The first reaction is whether you want to sell the product, and they will want to hear your next sentence, which is the most efficient. In fact, there is also a kind of euphemistic opening remarks, but the rules are very high. Must be a little indoor space, must intersect. For example, there is a girl reading in the public library. You can sit by and say, this book is because I have read it. As long as the girls will respond to you, you still have a chance to chat. Discuss whether the other party has recommended books or discuss the topic of related books by the topic of books. Then, of course, I seldom meet friends who like reading. After adding WeChat, I strongly recommend data information to each other. People generally feel close to people with the same preferences. Other scenes, dining, and eating guests by the way. Mountain climbing, in order to like the method of mountain climbing and fitness. Anyway, let's see what's best. It is also the most strongly recommended immediate gradual method, which is simple and convenient.
The second step is to look back at the scene and see why. At first, everyone thought they were the ones who were accosted. What would you do if someone accosted you?
Why does he want to know me? Where did he see me?
Because it is impossible to say that you want to know someone for no reason, and it is impossible for girls on the street to strike up a conversation as soon as they see something beautiful. There is always a starting point. Finding the breakthrough point is the scene review. For example, I just had a drink here. Then I feel that you are particularly temperament, so I will let you play this trick. This is to look back at the scene, find a breakthrough point and then inform the girls to reduce their guard. How to chat up beautiful women? And then, of course, why. There is a simple reason. If you want to talk to this girl, it means that this girl has something that attracts you. You can say it right away. Then let me talk about my own experience. for instance
Because I was distressed for a long time, but I didn't want to regret it, so I decided to come back and let you say hello.
How to chat up beautiful women? After talking about the reasons, everyone's psychological state will be involved, so today I will simply tell you how to pick up girls. So what do you want to talk about after hitting on girls? Then you should care about Xiao Ai, who will teach you in detail how to take the next step after picking up girls.