First of all, we should be excellent ourselves. Being a shining talent will attract others' attention. You have advantages that others don't have, and you will be envied by others and attract people who like you in the future.
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Sweet love is not given by one side, but by both sides. You should have a good personality and be sweeter at ordinary times. The people you attract will also be attracted to you. They interact, get along, communicate, study and live together. This is sweet love, and you will find that every little detail is paid by both of you.
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In addition, sometimes you don't have to force it. It's not sweet to twist a melon.
Take care of your studies first, and then you will have the energy to do other things when your grades are stable. Otherwise, you can't take care of your love and career, you can only take care of one thing, and on the other hand, you can spend it well. If you say that your grades are not good, but you just want sweet love, it is largely impossible. Because of your poor grades, you will be criticized by many parties, that is, teachers' doubts and family pressure, so you have to deal with both.