Make friends with yourself as if I were better than anything else. But it's better to meet each other after three to five days. Human feelings are like water and things are like clouds. Will talk about the city, not the house.

When we make friends again, we should try to make friends with people who are better than ourselves. Because of this, we can improve ourselves. People at the same level do not promote themselves. However, Confucius said, "In a threesome, there must be a teacher." . For the people around you, we should find their bright spots and advantages to improve ourselves.

People should have a certain strangeness when getting along with others. Too close often leads to contradictions and dissatisfaction. There are also high and low human feelings, so don't care too much. Let it roll with the wind like a cloud. Just take it seriously. Don't always let yourself feel sad with a fear of losing, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of emotions.

A person's self-restraint and temperament can be seen from the content of his speech. We should be open-minded, accommodate family and state affairs, talk about important things and think about them. You can't always talk about your parents' shortcomings. We should let go of our own pattern and increase our knowledge.