No, friendship is also very important to me, so I will not give up friendship because of love. We who are alienated from friendship still need the love and friendship of friends in our lives, right? Contradictory

Love seems to have always been defined as possessive and irreplaceable, so most of their attitudes towards love are absolutely private. They will always unconsciously put love at a high level and put it Imagine it as the only pure place in your long life.

It is precisely because of these thoughts that they decide to keep a distance from their friends of the opposite sex, which is the so-called "avoidance of suspicion." But they have overlooked one thing. Friendship is also the only thing in a long life. In ancient times, the phrase "the bond between life and death is broad, and it is said with the child; holding the hand of the child, and growing old together with the child" was originally meant to praise friendship, not the relationship between men and women. like.

As far as I am concerned, I will choose to maintain the original contact with my friend of the opposite sex, because he has been in my life for too long.

Our families live very close to each other and we have known each other since childhood. He has been with me throughout my youth and youth. He never disliked me when my face was full of acne. He patiently helped me answer questions when I didn’t do well in exams. He skipped classes with me, chased boys with me, passed notes, and even went through life with me. The first relationship in my life...

I am very lucky to have met him before I met true love. To me, his company is as warm as family. In fact, real opposite-sex friends and partners bring you completely different feelings. In love, you will quarrel because of your disagreement with the other person, but the disagreement between friends just gives you another perspective to see the problem; Love will make you go crazy and want to do crazy things for each other, but friends will always be ordinary, OK and cherished; love is sweet first and then bitter, while friendship is bitter first and then sweet; in love There will be many demanding requirements, but friendship is about mutual tolerance.

So, the existence of a true friend of the opposite sex will only make your world more complete.

"Love him well, and then live well. What keeps a person is never humbleness, but living an outstanding and independent life." Therefore, there is no need to give up your own life just because you love him. Friends of the opposite sex, just be yourself.

And the person who truly loves you and knows how to appreciate you will not care about you because of the existence of your opposite-sex friends.