However, some people think: "the advantages of the network are easy to be noticed by everyone, but its harm and shortcomings are ignored." There are different opinions on the objective evaluation of online dating. Everyone's resolution is different, so whether the network is good or not varies from person to person. In different hands, the network plays different roles. "
I thought, "actually, this is also very simple. If you are not a sincere person, you can also see it online. What does such a person have to do with him? Isn't it the same in reality? Everyone likes to make friends with people who have the same temperament, and they don't want to find those despicable people. On the internet, everyone is doing the same thing as always. The name network is similar to reality, at least everyone's exchange ideas are the same.
Sometimes it is easier to find friends online than in society. First, everyone doesn't know you. You can open your heart to others and let them know about you. Wouldn't it be better to find better friends if others did the same? But how many people in society have the courage to say this to others? Let's just say that only a few old friends can talk to them like this.
The advantages of the network are easily noticed by everyone, but its harm and shortcomings are ignored. Whether it is correct to objectively evaluate online dating is a matter of opinion. Everyone's ability to distinguish is different, so whether the network is good or not varies from person to person. In different people's hands, the network plays different roles.
I'm here to discuss the advantages and disadvantages of online dating with you, just to let you know its powerful relationship. There is no denying that there is deception in reality, and the network does play a platform role in the process of making friends, but we still need to understand the nature of online dating. After all, the network has its virtual side.
In 2004, there was a message on Xinhuanet: "A few days ago, a female middle school student in Nanjing was busy meeting netizens and had been' missing' for five days. When her father was looking for his daughter, he accidentally found that her daughter sent more than 7000 text messages to netizens a month.
Yesterday, the girl's father, Zhang, told reporters that her daughter would meet with netizens on March 5, and there is no news yet. Zhang said excitedly that he has been addicted to the internet since he went to technical secondary school. She often goes out at night, and the class teacher has visited her in Internet cafes many times. However, Xiao Xia seems to be unresponsive to the teacher's concern and warning, and still goes his own way. Sometimes netizens don't meet for days.
After Xiao Xia disappeared, his father asked the telecommunications department who Xiao Xia often contacted. Unexpectedly, Xiao Xia was shocked by a phone bill and sent more than 7,000 messages to different people a month. He doesn't even know which way to start looking for his daughter. It is understood that Zhang is looking for his daughter in Internet cafes and streets every day. He hopes that 17-year-old daughter can go home early and not neglect her studies.
To treat it correctly means to analyze the specific situation and look at it from the perspective of splitting into two. There is nothing wrong with making friends online. When the network spreads good things, it will inevitably be mixed with bad things. If the majority of social members, especially teenagers, lack the guidance of mainstream cultural values and behavioral norms, they will easily form wrong outlook on life, moral values and ideal values and go astray, and even form anti-social personality.
Internet is by far the most interesting way of communication. First of all, from a technical point of view, whether the other person is at the ends of the earth or close at hand, surfing the Internet is like face to face. If you use audio uploading and camera technology again, it will be a refreshing feeling; Secondly, from a psychological point of view, because there are many things to play and chat on the Internet, it is easy to find the same topic as soon as you enter. Also, if you are really unhappy, you can not enter the other party or enter as the other party doesn't know, and you won't complain if you can't make friends. Finally, a person who never goes online will get a new opportunity to communicate with others immediately if one day.
Of course, there are online dating, online cheating and so on. It can't be said that there is anything wrong with the network itself, but it can only be said that the network has improved the probability of good and bad aspects.
First, correctly guide teenagers to make use of network resources and make good friends with netizens.
Teenagers are inexperienced and interested in new things, which need to be treated correctly by society, schools and families.
Internet access problem. Especially parents should know a little about computers. Only when they understand, can they correctly guide children to use network resources, so that children and netizens can become good friends and raise their awareness.
The internet is like a colorful illusory stage, where people with their faces covered play different roles. Surfers choose different coordinate points and stand on different stages. Bright lights give people a feeling of unrestrained enthusiasm; Soft lighting gives people a kind and warm feeling; Dim lighting gives people a sense of confusion, and the color is cold; Dark places give people a feeling of indifference and coldness. What role a surfer plays and what kind of netizens he needs to dance with shows his quality and personality.
It is not easy to change hands with friends in the vast network. There are many teenagers online dating, so you can use immaturity to find a beautiful excuse. Mature married men and women have online dating in the process of surfing the internet. Does this mean that they are immature? That's not true. It's just that they make friends for different purposes. If online communication is just to adjust emotions, relax and improve yourself. Modest and sincere communication with netizens, perhaps there will not be so many online dating tragedies.
Second, Internet surfers should have a comfortable mentality.
Besides being self-motivated, a normal mind is more valuable. Only when you have a normal mind can you have a peaceful mind. With this mentality, in the process of interacting with netizens, you won't have any beautiful fantasies and fantasies about online dating. People who surf the Internet will communicate with each other honestly with sincere words. This is a comfortable state of mind. Making friends online with such a mentality is bound to have unexpected surprises and gains-winning the favor and trust of netizens.
Give full play to the advantages of network interpersonal communication and improve their own quality and ability.
The new era is the era of digital information. Online job hunting, online information and online shopping all require people to make use of the convenience of online interpersonal communication to create a brand-new way of life. This can just make full use of the advantages of network interpersonal communication. How to improve the quality and ability of internet users depends on whether they have hobbies and pursuits. If the Internet is only addicted to games, it will lose its value and function. Wouldn't it be an improvement if surfing the internet is to discuss some views and opinions about life, career, love, marriage and family with netizens? Being able to keep pace with netizens and travel in cyberspace is priceless, and the gains are self-evident. Entering the forum to post and reply can not only improve your writing ability, but also meet some netizens. Why not? Reading online can increase your knowledge, and so on. Aren't these the best notes to improve your quality and ability?
Fourth, the strategy of interpersonal communication on the Internet.
Many friends are easy to walk. The same is true of friends on the internet. This can explain the necessity and reality of network interpersonal communication.
The network provides people with opportunities for spiritual exchange, and it is also people's spiritual garden. Walking in this beautiful garden, people can't avoid the flowers and willows in the garden, and the dust in the corner of the garden is sweeping wildly, destroying the scenery. If you don't keep your eyes open and see more friends in the network, you will be misled, infatuated and even hurt. This requires understanding the strategy of making friends.
Personally, I think the strategy of online dating: don't trust a person easily, don't hurt a netizen casually, make sincere friends, have friendly exchanges with ordinary netizens, and ignore and abandon those with bad conduct.
To sum up, there is much to be done in network interpersonal communication, and the key is to correctly handle the advantages and disadvantages of network interpersonal communication. Among them, it is equally important to use what kind of mentality to go online and what kind of method to choose friends.