Everyone needs friends, because you have friends, so you will form a huge group and an unbreakable organization. Why, you see that some people eat a lot everywhere they go, and they have food and drink everywhere they go, and they are not short of money, so they know that once they have interpersonal relationships, they can rely on my social circle to find a suitable place. We can go to a friend's house, chat with friends and share some knowledge with each other. The other party is very happy, so I invite you to eat and drink and share my knowledge with you, so even if I have no money, the other party will invite you. We can go to public places to share our life experiences and reading experiences, so that everyone will make you tea, give you food and buy you things. Why can't we eat there? Because you share it with others because you think through your brain and you know how to change, so everyone respects you. Even if you have no money, people will teach you how to make money. This is the advantage of making friends, because you share with each other. Example: Liu Bang, Emperor Gaozu of Han Dynasty, was originally a small curator of Qin Dynasty, but later he was delayed and lost many prisoners because he stood up to escort the prisoners. Knowing that they were not within the time limit, they sent all the prisoners to Xianyang, the capital. If they wanted to put him to death, they were released. So these prisoners thanked Dade for fighting for Liu Bang and all followed Liu Bang. Liu bang used these prisoners to rebel, and finally made up a story about cutting white snakes, and finally occupied them successfully. Liu Bang succeeded in the uprising because he had a group of friends who usually loved to eat and drink, and these friends, everyone regarded Liu Bang as their best friends and went to see Liu Bang every day. Therefore, Liu Bang is the big head in his mind, and even if Liu Bang has no money, there are women who follow him every day for him to eat, drink and be merry. This is the beauty of Liu Bang. Liu bang usually helps villagers arbitrate things, so everyone asks Liu bang for help in anything. Finally, everyone elected Liu Bang as the director of the pavilion. Liu Bang can work because he has friends, such as Fan Kuai, Xia Houying, Xiao He and Cao Can. These friends are his resourceful groups and private bodyguards. Liu Bang finally defeated Xiang Yu, occupied China and became the first civilian emperor in the history of China, thanks to the best friends of these friends. Liu Bang can make friends with these friends because he knows how to share with friends. Moreover, Liu Bang has a strong ability to improvise and judge. After hearing the ideas and opinions of many resourceful people, he can immediately judge the correct opinions. So he made peace with Xiang Yu in Xingyang, divided the boundaries, listened to Xiao He and Sean, tore up the peace treaty, sent troops to kill Xiang Yu, and finally Xiang Yu committed suicide in Wujiang River. Finally, Liu Bang annexed Jiangdong, so Liu Bang proclaimed himself emperor. Became the first civilian emperor in the history of China, all because Liu Bang knew how to make good use of talents and treat his friends well. These friends eventually became his right-hand man to dominate the world, so this is also the relationship between Liu Bangshan and talents.
Why don't we have friends? Because you don't know the value of having friends. You are alone every day. Once you have a problem with others, everyone is unwilling to help you. This is the biggest disadvantage of having no friends, because no one really knows what kind of person you are, so everyone is unwilling to help you when something goes wrong. So when you know what a friend is and determine the value of a friend, you should be brave enough to open up your own interpersonal circle because you help each other. By communicating with friends, the snowball is getting bigger and bigger, which is the advantage of knowing friends, because friends are, everyone just knows how to share resources, which is value. Tian Wen Meng Changjun, the seven heroes of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty and the Warring States Period, had 3,000 diners and various talents. At first, a man named Feng Xuan was too poor to support himself, so Feng Xuan sent someone to see Meng Changjun, hoping that he would have a place to eat after his death. When Meng Changjun saw Feng Xuan, he smiled and agreed at once. Moreover, compared with diners who have fish, cars and salaries, Feng Xuan has money to eat, drink and spend, and Feng Xuan is regarded as a friend, which makes Feng Xuan feel quite practical. One day, Meng Changjun posted a document, hoping that someone could go to the snow to collect debts. At this time, Feng Xuan told Meng Changjun that he could. Before leaving, Feng Xuan asked Meng Changjun, "I don't know what is missing at home." Meng Changjun said: "What do you think is missing, then buy it." So he immediately went to Xue, called all the tenants together and burned the farm contract, so on the third day, he went home. Meng Changjun said, "Why did you come back so soon? Feng Xuan said, "I have money, a house and a car for adults, but what I lack is benevolence. I bought a thing for adults, that is righteousness, so I called the tenants together and burned the farm contract. I succeeded in digging the sly rabbit's cave. Meng Changjun said unhappily, "All right, go down." Before long, King JiXiang dismissed Meng Changjun from all his posts and ordered him to return to the fief. Before Meng Changjun returned to the fief, I saw Feng Xuan leading Snow Emperor's people out to meet him one hundred kilometers away. Later, Meng Changjun cried and said, "I have seen Mr. Wang buy me the most valuable things, so this is benevolence and righteousness. 」
When we know that we can make many good friends, it is because friends value our value and are willing to help us; We also value the value of friends, just like the friendship between fish and water. If a fish can't go with the flow, then it can't swim freely in its heart, and once it leaves the water, it is like food waiting for someone to kill it. Anyone who sees the fish can eat it. It is no exaggeration to compare the friendship between fish and water to the value of making friends.