1. People who usually care about you but disappear as soon as they ask him for help must make friends with people who can be found at any time when you need help, and those who preach the truth but disappear at critical times should also be avoided as soon as possible. In fact, friendship is sometimes close to true love, and the feelings maintained by only one party will soon expose some problems. Therefore, you should never be friends with someone who cares about you in various ways but disappears in the process of needing him.

Everyone's personality is different. Although some people are grumpy and sometimes mean to you, as long as their foothold and heart are not bad, everyone can become good friends. What I fear most is the person who is nice to you on the surface, but lets you stab you behind your back. Therefore, when you get along with others, don't look at what the other person said, but look at what he did for you. This is the most important thing.

2. People who are close to you inexplicably and have a purpose. Every passerby who approaches you inexplicably has a purpose. Therefore, in the case of making friends, we must be vigilant and never fall into the trap of others. As the old saying goes, if you have nothing to do, you are either a traitor or a thief. I don't believe you can sit back and relax and play so accurately. They may be kind to you for a purpose, so be sure to distinguish who really loves you and who just wants to use you. When we do meet such people, don't scold each other too much, just avoid them silently. After all, different roads lead to different goals.

3. People who have always had negative emotions and feel that the whole world owes them should remember to avoid people who have always had negative energy, because their daily complaints will not only make your mood worse and worse, but also subtly endanger you to become such a person. People who have been negative and feel that the whole world owes them are undoubtedly hurt in family relationships. Their ideas have long been born unshakable and cannot be changed in a short time. Therefore, when we find that everyone's temperament and world outlook are different, the effective way is to avoid it first.

When something goes wrong, the first thing you should think about is how to deal with it, not just complaining. This will not only lead to personality shortcomings, but also may do something extreme. Therefore, it is very important to maintain a positive, optimistic and enterprising personality. Never make friends with people with negative energy, or even if you are an optimistic person, you will be affected.