Is the friendship between boys and girls pure? In today's complex society, it seems that many friends do not believe that only men and women who are friends can have simple and pure feelings. However, in today's complex social circle, there may be such simple and pure friends.

When a man insists on these four points, you are just an ordinary friend.

Speak interestingly but not ambiguously first

When men are dealing with women, they will only become ambiguous when they have any thoughts about women. For example, when a woman says, "Because I haven't found a boyfriend yet, and I don't think I will ever have one." ?The man replied: ?No one wants you. I miss you. I will support you in the future. ?If you think this is a joke, you are wrong. Men usually only say such suggestive things when they are interested in a woman. When two people are chatting well, there is ridicule in their words, but there is no ambiguity. They didn't cross any boundaries, which meant they only saw each other as friends.

Second, do not take intimate actions

There must be physical contact when the opposite sex contacts. When a man sees a woman as a good "mate", he is always in contact with her. But this is not an intimate contact, but a sign of an iron-clad relationship. Intimate behavior means "holding hands" and "hugging the waist." Only when a man treats a woman as an ordinary friend, he is worried that this will affect your simple friendship. Therefore, men will only do intimate actions in front of the person they like, and will not hold your hand or put their arms around your waist.

Third, there is not much loneliness

Men will not always waste time on simple friends of the opposite sex. First, games are more important to them and they are willing to spend more time playing games. Secondly, they are always hanging out with women. They are afraid of being seen by others and causing unnecessary misunderstandings.

Fourth, there will not be much economic exchange

Sending gifts during the holidays is a sign of boys pleasing their favorite girls. So try to keep economic exchanges to a minimum.

If the above points are achieved, there will be pure friendship between men and women.