At noon on October 6th, a big event happened at Mr. Shen’s house in Harbin. It was obviously the National Day holiday. Everyone should be happy and thinking about where to go to play. The atmosphere of Mr. Shen’s family But she was very nervous because Mr. Shen’s daughter sent a message
The letter bluntly asked her mother to take care of herself. The whole article felt that the girl was regretful and helpless, and her words were very much like she was doing what she was doing to her parents. Goodbye, sure enough, when Mr. Shen saw something was wrong, he immediately called his daughter and learned that his daughter’s mobile phone had been turned off and could not be contacted. Since then, his daughter had lost contact. Mr. Shen said that he had not had any disputes with his daughter recently. After that, Mr. Shen couldn't contact his daughter for two days, and no one was there when he went to her residence. Mr. Shen asked everywhere but still didn't know where his daughter had gone. In fact, from the last text message the girl sent to her mother, we can see how helpless and regretful she is, and how hopeless she is. Maybe the girl has been living with oppression and distrust for a long time, and no one can give her any encouragement and motivation to move forward. , making him despise himself and even give up on himself now.
I think the girl sent such a text message because of family reasons or some friendship reasons. He never mentioned his emotional trauma in the text message, so it should not be an emotional problem. He In the text message, she only said that she felt useless and confused, and she regretted not studying and dropping out of school before. A girl who is only seventeen years old has to work in a company and come into contact with society too early. It is undoubtedly for the mentality of teenagers that has not yet been fully formed. It's a very serious blow.
The girl may be suffering from depression before sending such a text message. He may be on the verge of final collapse due to the pressure of life, leaving society prematurely, and possibly pressure from his parents to drop out of school. , go to work, and move out early. At the critical moment of children's growth, support and encouragement from parents must be indispensable. Otherwise, it is easy to develop an inferiority complex, which will lead to distrust and lack of confidence in oneself, which can turn into a more serious suicidal mentality. Parents are the most important guides on the road to physical and mental health of their children. Some words from their parents may cause their children's hearts to collapse. It is the responsibility of every parent to take good care of the psychology of every growing teenager.