Friends are the people everyone wants to have and the people everyone wants to be. In order to make everyone become friends and consolidate the relationship between friends, we need something called friendship to water it.
friends are very important in China. Traditional Confucianism attaches great importance to it, and puts forward "sincerity", "faith", "benevolence" and "loyalty", which has always influenced us, penetrated into our lives and influenced our behavior. Become the rule of our friends. A series of stories, such as "Looking for a bosom friend in high mountains and flowing water" and "Flying roofs are far away from each other, and holding cups in their hands", are profound expressions of friendship.
"Depend on your parents at home and friends when you go out", which shows the importance of friends, and the role of friends lies in relying on each other. Rather than the behavior of blossoming evil flowers in the name of friends and friendship for personal gain. The difference between the former and the latter lies in: the former relies on each other and helps each other, especially when friends are in trouble, they rely on each other, encourage each other and help each other out of the predicament; The latter "watered" the friendship after the horse when the friend was in the spring breeze; When a friend is in trouble, he is wise to protect himself and abandon him. What's more, he adds insult to injury by adding insult to injury.
"A friend in need sees the truth, but a fire sees the real gold", which is what we ask of our friends, and it is also a standard to judge the authenticity of friendship. It also shows that friendship needs refining and sublimation. The friendship of calling each other brothers on the wine table and crowding round when things are going well is not true friendship; It is true friendship that gives you advice when you are proud and words of concern when you are down and out. Because it is not only not flattered by the temptation of fame and fortune, but also verified and sublimated in difficulties.
"A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" indicates that making friends should have nothing to ask for. Only in this way can we be alone and not lonely, and make life warmer and more comfortable.
Actually, friends who don't ask for anything are rare. You might as well close your eyes and delete those who ask for something one by one. How many are there in the end? Because true friendship is "nothing to ask for", she should not ask for anything, rely on nothing, refuse all contracts, and always be pure and fragile. Therefore, it is always so easy to be muddy and broken. Various books also introduce various ways to prevent friendship from breaking, but those methods are technical. Once technical means enter the emotional field, there is always no good result. Friendship needs to be watered with heart and cultivated with life, in order to blossom a brilliant flower of friendship.
in a word, we should not only cultivate right feelings. Because we can have no achievements, and we must never have no friends; We need friendship, but also need to be alert to evil, prevent hypocrisy and oppose betrayal. Regarding friendship, let's end with Mr. Yu Qiuyu's words!
is it easy to come to the world once?
is it easy to meet once?
is it easy to call a friend?
It's the same sentence-
Learn to cherish and be careful. Friendship is one of the most precious feelings in life. I don't know how many famous people in ancient and modern China and abroad used many beautiful poems to praise and praise it. A great man once said, "People who can't get friendship will be poor loners all their lives;" A society without friendship is just a bustling desert. " Friends are the spokesmen of friendship. They never abandon anyone and give up anyone. And use their generous hearts to accommodate and accept others, so that others can feel the warmth and care of friendship in them. In prosperity, friends met us; In adversity, we got to know our friends. This is the evaluation made by celebrity Collins on his friends. This reminds me of a report I read in Zibo Evening News not long ago. There are a pair of friends who go climbing together. It happened that it was raining and the road was slippery. A man accidentally slipped, and it happened that there was an abyss beside him. At this critical moment, his friend immediately rushed to hold his hand. In this way, they lasted for about two hours before the "ghost gate". During this time, the man in danger told his friend to let go several times, so as not to fall down together and die. But his friend said, "Hold on a little longer, and someone will come to save us." Finally, it happened that three mountain workers saw it and saved them. But that friend's hand has become deformed, but he still smiled and said to his friend, "I told you someone would save us." At this time, the man had tears in his eyes and cried with his friend in his arms. If this happens to people without friendship, they may turn a blind eye or run away. Collins was right. We met friends in adversity and their greatness. Friendship is felt and transmitted with your heart. Only when you have experienced it yourself will you know the value of friendship.
actually, I am very experienced with the word "friendship". This year's simulated Long March, which may be the first hike of most of our classmates, is also a big test in our lives. In this activity, most students can walk down, not necessarily by their own ability, perseverance and strength, but by mutual encouragement and support between classmates and friends. Every student has been encouraged by other students, and it is these insignificant encouragement and support that we will come down tenaciously. During the trip, when a classmate can't hold on a little, the students around him will also lend a helping hand to help him with his backpack, even though they are very tired. In this way, this hand is not only a helping hand, but also a hand of friendship. Students may only get a smile or a look from each other when they do this, but they are also very happy because they know that friends don't need to reciprocate. At lunch, when a person doesn't have enough steamed bread or pickles, the students will also extend a hand of friendship and hand them over to him, and perhaps they will only get a sincere "thank you". They are also very satisfied because they know that friendship is priceless. It can be seen that the friendship between classmates is so deep and pure.
Friendship is a flower that blooms in an instant, but time will make it bear fruit.
Friendship is two figures under an umbrella and two pairs of bright eyes on a desk.
Friendship is two small flowers in the ideal soil and two notes in the grand movement.
Friendship is the sun that never sets. Let friends approach your heart and nourish your soul.
Please extend your hand of friendship, let us hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder, truly experience friendship, truly feel friendship, cherish friendship, and let the flowers of friendship bloom everywhere. I firmly believe that our tomorrow will be more beautiful and brilliant! What is friendship? You may be surprised that I don't even understand friendship, but it was after that that I really understood its meaning.
at noon that day, the sun was still spitting fire, shining violently on the earth, as if to scorch it. Cao Qing, Yu Pei and I are hiding in the shade and jumping rubber bands because of this. We discussed the weather while jumping rubber bands. Cao Qing said, "The weather forecast also says it will rain today. I think it's a lie." I also support her point of view. Yu Pei said, "It doesn't look like rain in such fine weather."
But after the second class ended in the afternoon, the weather was not beautiful, and the weather forecast was biased. Soon, the sky was overcast. We rushed into the classroom. After a while, a silver light pierced the sky, Lei Gong blew a whistle, and Miss Rain spilled the best and most pearls.
After school, everyone "went their separate ways". As for me, I was standing on the roadside outside the school, hoping that the rain would stop, because the distance from my home and my slow running were enough for me to take a big bath. Suddenly, an umbrella blocked the sky above me. As soon as I turned around, it turned out that my good friend Zhao Mali was behind me. She smiled sweetly and said, "Come on, let's go home together." I was so happy that I talked and laughed with her and walked into the rain, throwing away my troubles just now.
In a short time, we will reach the fork in the road. It seems that I can only spell it. I was just about to rush into the rain when she suddenly said, "Here, you can hold this umbrella." I said, "How can this be done? Aren't you going to get wet? " She smiled: "It doesn't matter, my home is near, and it doesn't take a few steps to get there. Your home is far away, so you'd better hurry home, otherwise, your parents will be in a hurry." I was so moved that I didn't know what to say, but I still said "thank you" when I heard it.
along the way, my heart was heavy and full of friendship.
sometimes you are warm,