Confucianism advocates modesty and prudence, learning from others and learning from each other's strengths. People should not be arrogant and unreasonable, but should discuss things with others more. People who respect others will be respected by others, and their relationship will be harmonious and approachable. People will have friends.

Confucius said, "The winner has three friends, but the loser has three friends." "Choose the good and follow it, and the bad.

It's far. "Everyone has something to say, and sometimes they need help from others. It is very necessary to make friends. The problem is that there are many kinds of friends, how to grasp them. Among friends, there are like-minded people, people who know each other, people who have been childhood friends, people who bite the hand that feeds them, people who are treacherous and treacherous, and people who consider their enemies as friends without consideration. Nowadays, most of our friends use each other, treat others sincerely, trust each other and care less about each other. Be wary of anyone, be careful. You can't say everything and do everything. You can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people. Today he is your friend, tomorrow he may be your enemy.

"Open and aboveboard, treat each other with sincerity." How to treat friends? First of all, be sincere and have a comparative heart. Of course, the premise is that I call this person a friend, because I think he can be trusted and associated. Sincerity means praising the good, pointing out the bad and helping to improve. Then there is mutual support and encouragement to achieve progress.

"Seeking common ground while reserving differences" Of course, the best friends also have different personalities and pursuits. You can't ask the other person to obey you with your own likes and dislikes, and you shouldn't ask your friends to agree with you regardless of whether your opinion is correct or not. "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is Confucius' thought, which still applies today.

A hedge between keeps friendship green. Friends should not talk about eating, drinking and having fun, but reciprocate. Friends should support each other, encourage each other and make progress together, instead of conniving, conniving and covering up mistakes.

Confucius said, "A gentleman is near but a villain is far away." People are selfish animals. When he thinks it is more cost-effective to betray you than not to betray you, he will take you as a stepping stone for fame and fortune. Or if you make a profit, it will push you to the abyss. When making friends, you should see through each other's intentions in time and ask why. Little people can't make friends Otherwise, the catastrophe is still unknown.

For thousands of years, Confucianism has educated the descendants of Chinese people in China and created oriental civilization.

In the 2 1 century, we will still use these concepts to educate our children and grandchildren.