The beginning of life is beautiful. As long as a child is willing to play with us and can get along happily without quarreling, then we often regard each other as our best friends, because at that time, we had no vanity, competitiveness and utilitarianism, and our simple and kind personality made many people their friends. But with the growth of age, people's initial temperament will change, and the way of making friends will become cautious. You can't trust a person completely just a few times before you know each other clearly.
If you find that the other person is a person with good conduct and three views consistent with yourself, then naturally two people will come together and have the same topic and heartfelt words. If you choose who to be your confidant, then you should be kind to others. Friends are not utilitarian. You are willing to be friends with him because you need to express your love for each other. We need to show our friendship, and we can't concentrate on using this friend.
As ordinary people, we have endless words and quarrels with our confidants. If we really treat each other as friends, we shouldn't be bitter about our previous quarrel. Sometimes opinions are sublimated in the process of argument, so you should be grateful for your friends' openness to you. Also, don't take your friends' kindness for granted. People are mutual processes. Even the closest best friend, not your mother, has no responsibility for your life at all.
If your friend is excellent, try to catch up with him, and you two will go hand in hand. But friends also need personal space and boundaries. Don't be self-righteous and rush to places where he doesn't need your intervention. In terms of money, don't be confused. It's ok to reciprocate, but don't take it for granted. Try to avoid borrowing money from friends, because the duty of friends is more emotional comfort than life help.