Fate is everywhere. You can find your true love on blind date, but don't hold out too much hope at the same time. It's just a meeting. The next step is to get along. I believe everyone can find their true love. The unique romance of blind date will be afraid and guarded against blind date because we misunderstood it. "Not on top of each other" is not used to evaluate whether a person is excellent or not, but to look at the fitness of both sides. The unique romance of blind date is not the kind of slow romance that meets a person aimlessly in daily life and then grows up over time; Nor is it the passionate romance when people meet at first sight at a special moment.
But at present, we have an open mind to know another person, and see what other people's world looks like, an atmosphere of Kan Kan talking. In this process, what really makes people have a romantic experience is not a corner full of idol dramas, but the mutual attraction when the two sides open their hearts. If you want to get true love in blind date, you must first let go of the anxiety of being evaluated, weaken your motivation, keep an open attitude towards life, be willing to meet all kinds of people with different growth modes from you, and meet strangers with interest. The more open your heart is, the less afraid you are of being judged. The more you know yourself, the more confident you are and the closer you are to true love.
being evaluated anxiety refers to feeling anxious once being examined and evaluated by others. I am afraid to sit under the eyes of others and let others choose or evaluate. "Examination anxiety" comes from the invisible "evaluation anxiety". The more you are afraid of being seen by others, the more likely you are to have some anxious reactions, such as sweaty palms, dyspnea, rapid heartbeat and autonomic nervous system disorder. This kind of anxiety will often "help", make yourself full of resistance to others, and want to escape, things that could have been successful will also be screwed up.