The second grade of junior high school is a watershed in junior high school. It is very important for junior high school students. We must cherish it. The following is a letter from parents of the second grade of junior high school to their children that I compiled for everyone. "Letter Sample" is for reference only, everyone is welcome to read it. Sample letter from parents to their children in the second grade of junior high school 1
Child:
Child, as a father, I feel very proud and happy when I write this letter, because you have grown from A newborn baby has grown into a young man that I am proud of. However, do you know that the long journey of life in the future will not be smooth sailing. Facing this complicated world, you must learn to make choices, give up, and learn to take stock of your life.
When the innocence and carefreeness of childhood say goodbye to us, the footsteps of youth will come quietly. The youth who have experienced this period will develop by leaps and bounds both physically and psychologically. , very complex changes occurred.
The road of life is long, and heroes have been lonely since ancient times. On the road of life, it is often boring and boring. At this time, please open your eyes and look at everything around you. You have to set your own goals and work tirelessly towards them. When you reach a crossroad, don't hesitate. Maybe if you choose this fork in the road, there will be a clear spring for you to drink from. Maybe if you choose this fork in the road, there will be a shade tree for you to enjoy the shade. But kid, don’t forget your goals, don’t stop at these temporary comforts – only by giving up these will you reach your peak.
In your study and life, you have to give up something and take inventory from time to time. During the learning process, you will be tempted by many external temptations, which will waste a lot of your energy. Sometimes, a long-awaited video game is released; sometimes, a good friend asks you to go out to play; sometimes, a romantic movie is broadcast on TV... You may choose to give up studying amid these and studying, then, kid, you Wrong. I myself am the best example! I now leave early and come home late to drive a taxi. I can’t make much money a day and I’m always getting in trouble from the traffic police. Isn’t this all because I didn’t decisively give up on things I shouldn’t put my energy into when I was a kid? So kid, give up some, and you will gain more in your future life.
I have heard many parents talk about their daughters. They were so well-behaved and obedient when they were young. They would do whatever they were told and they could make people happy. However, as they grew up, they began to become difficult to control, especially when they grew up. In the second year of junior high school, there was a more obvious gap with my parents. I didn’t tell my parents what happened at school or what I was worried about. I felt that I had grown up and could handle my own affairs, and I didn’t want my parents to take care of me. You have stronger self-esteem, love face more, hope to express yourself in the crowd, show your excellent side, and your self-awareness and independence are increasing day by day. This is not a bad thing, it is a manifestation of your growth.
Maybe you are giving up a few minutes of entertainment now, but you will enjoy life better later. Maybe you gave up trying the game, but you will design your own game later.
The future is like a mountain, and the top is your goal. In the process of climbing, you have to learn to give up resting in the shade of trees, you have to learn to give up admiring the wild flowers on the roadside, you have to learn to give up the cool breeze in the pavilion, you have to learn to give up every little thing that does not belong to you. Mountains, you have to be clear about your goals. You will step on the past under your feet. You can lower your head and look at what you have given up. You will find that the moments that should have shined have long been dimmed, and the moments that should have been priceless. It's just a passing cloud. Well kid, let me tell you, you succeeded.
If you can see through it once, you will know how much you can feel with the fresh breeze. My father now understands that some waiting is always worth it, and some promises are always perfect. These require you to persist, and you need to count other glitz to get them. But my father didn't do it. So, child, don’t let your father’s regret become your regret again.
Kids, remember, life needs to be taken stock!
Your father
Sample letter 2 from parents to their children in the second grade of junior high school on x month x
Children:
This time Dad went home to visit relatives and found that you are better behaved and more sensible than before. Dad was happy from the bottom of his heart. Seeing you growing up day by day, healthy and happy, studying hard, being strong, and getting good grades, Dad was indescribably happy.
Of course, I also find that sometimes you are willful, such as not eating well, being picky about food, or watching TV series all day long, playing music while doing homework, etc. This also worries me because it will affect your health and affect your health. Your school grades, and in turn, can even affect your personality.
Dad is leaving again tomorrow. I have a lot to say to you before leaving. Thank you teacher for giving me this opportunity. I want to tell you the following points:
1. Life It is a marathon. It is not a sprint, nor can you stop and take a rest in the middle. It is a matter of perseverance and continuous learning towards the set goals. As the saying goes, you laugh best when you laugh at the end, so we must achieve "win or win" Be arrogant and not discouraged by defeat.” If you work hard day by day, you will achieve success.
2. Life is another competition of comprehensive quality, not a single competition. All your shortcomings may hold you back in the future. For example, your English is a weak point; you often have to postpone homework until the last moment, lacking planning; you are temporarily unable to understand the opinions of teachers and parents; these will affect your development. Therefore, in the face of our shortcomings, avoiding them will only leave problems to the future, or even cause problems to accumulate and block the pace of progress.
I have already talked about how to learn English in my previous letter. Regarding your homework procrastination, this involves a principle of doing things, that is, "first things first", that is, the most important things should be done first. This is not only a guide for your study, but this principle will also apply to your future work. Regarding listening to the opinions of teachers and parents, this is because we have experienced decades of life and have suffered a lot from the mistakes we have made. We do not want our children and students to repeat the mistakes of the past, so I would like to warn you with all my heart. A smart person Children should not ignore the words of adults.
3. Cultivate more interest in learning. Everyone knows the importance of interest. Interest is the best teacher. Just like your math, because you like it and have put in extra effort, you feel it is easy and simple and you learn quickly. So how to cultivate interest in mathematics, physics and chemistry? The main thing is to read popular science books to understand their development history and what production problems they have solved for mankind. Personal experiences of scientists, etc., the purpose is to know that the formulas you learn every day are not empty things, they are closely related to life and reality.
The study of Chinese is to read more good books, classic books, such as the Four Great Classics and so on. They have been selected by literati for hundreds of years and are recognized as good books. From them, you can gain the use of words, the wonderful use of text layout, the knowledge of humanistic feelings, etc. And I find that you currently spend too much time reading popular or thriller novels. These are okay as a hobby to relieve fatigue, but if you treat it as a hobby and invest a large amount of time to enjoy it, it will not be worth the gain. Because as popular music and popular literature, the nutrients they provide are very limited.
For English, the first thing to realize is that it is just a communication tool like Chinese. So who hasn’t learned Chinese before? Who hasn’t learned well? So don't be afraid of it. It's just about memorizing, memorizing and imitating more.
Dad, this letter may talk too much about shortcomings. In fact, in the hearts of your parents, you are a smart, kind and good child with unlimited potential. The reason why I talk about these is because these shortcomings were made and experienced by your parents when you were your age, so I list them in the hope that you can avoid making the same mistakes, avoid detours, and go faster. Something, something safer, I hope you understand dad's painstaking efforts.
You are about to enter the third year of junior high school. In junior high school, you are in your youth, which is one of the most precious periods in life. I hope you cherish it, seize the time, and be a better version of yourself. Dad believes in you!
Dad
Sample letter from parents to their children on x month x I like you very much, child.
I think you should be a very smart child, able to memorize pi to the xx position when you are 5 years old. Of course, you can continue to memorize it, if you are asked at that time. This is very important. This shows that you have a good memory. Memory is a very important ability in entrance exams. If you can’t remember basic knowledge well or accurately, what other abilities can you talk about? On the contrary, Dad's memory is very poor. This allows Dad to see the future in which you will definitely be much better than Dad.
If my father had a good memory, he would not have failed in the college entrance examination; if my father had a good memory, he would definitely have a sense of accomplishment now. Your good memory will definitely help you reach the peak of success. You see, kid, dad is your lifelong friend and has been paying attention to you since you were a child.
Your Chinese is very good. The last time I received a text message from your class teacher, you got excellent results again. Do you know? That day I went to the Provincial Public Security Department to handle business, and this text message made me very happy throughout the day. A strict teacher produces a good disciple. You must do it carefully according to Teacher Tian's requirements without making the slightest mistake. The early stage of any knowledge is to follow the rules. Only by laying a solid foundation can we innovate. If the foundation is not strong, the ground will shake.
Your math is also great. I'm happy about this. Because my father was very academic when he was a student. Partial subjects are not conducive to further studies. No matter how thick one leg is and the other is thin, it is still a disability. Your all-round development will help you complete your secondary school studies as soon as possible. My father went to high school for seven years.
When you come back this time, you asked your father to help you review your English. This makes me secretly admire you. Your English level is quite good!
Of course, your other subjects are also good. Especially when I heard you say that your physical education class also met the standards, I was so happy that I didn’t even mention it. When I was in high school, there was a girl in Weishi No. 1 Middle School who was admitted to Tsinghua University. She also tried her best in every aspect. She failed to meet the standards in physical education classes at first, but she persisted in exercising and finally made a breakthrough in all aspects. If you don't show your partiality in subjects at ordinary times, you will fail when you take the college entrance examination.
In all of this, we must not forget the teacher’s hard work on you. Be a child who knows how to be grateful and a child who knows how to repay kindness. This is a very good and important quality. Even if they grow up and join the workforce, children who are ungrateful are very frivolous, weightless, and have no future. Be grateful to the teacher for his good intentions on your life path.
In addition, handle the relationship between classmates well. Remember: respect every student. It's "respect" and nothing else. If you are respectful, you must be polite and polite when speaking. Do not be careless and inadvertently hurt the feelings of your classmates. Learn to praise others. Everyone has their strengths. Praise others for their strengths, and people will like you and you will win friends. Never laugh at classmates who have family difficulties or are lagging behind in studies. You must work hard to help them. You will not be rich for more than three generations, and poverty will not take root. Suddenly one day they become prosperous. Your ridicule today may be a huge irony to yourself in the future. Poor study now does not mean that everything will be inferior to others in the future. So be friendly to every student around you. Be humane.
For students you like, especially male students, you should deal with them appropriately. If you have a crush on a male classmate, this is normal. But you can’t “act” that good feeling. When you put all your energy into studying, that "good feeling" cannot be exaggerated. If you have time and energy, you can memorize history and geography! Can you get 100 points in a test without taking a book? It would be unwise to not handle the relationship between classmates well and affect your studies. Note: It’s “study”, not just “study”. You still have four and a half years of secondary school. Be careful when making friends. The kind of friends you make will affect your life. To classmates who like you, you should say: "Thank you!" If someone interferes with you, you can tell him honestly: "I respect you very much, please don't destroy your image!"
Another: If you have feelings If you are frustrated, for example, the person you like doesn't like you, especially the boy you like doesn't like you, please don't treat others in the wrong way, and don't treat yourself in the wrong way. For example, it is wrong to hurt others or yourself through this. The only way is: "seriously" surpass the other party in learning! In the future, when you are admitted to an ideal university such as Tsinghua University or Peking University, you can proudly say: Haha, it turns out that the other person is not worthy of me. Indeed, judging a person depends on the kind of friends he makes. Only by joining forces can we make the cake bigger. Please be careful when making friends.
Dad believes that you can handle everything of your own.
Dad has seen your progress in Qiushi Middle School. I think you will work in a very lofty position in the future.
Needless to say, your cultural classes are excellent. In the future, I will learn more about how to behave and do things, such as learning to communicate with teachers, parents, and classmates, and learning to speak. Of course, you have done well. It’s just that teachers and parents have higher and higher demands on you. alright. I hope I can often hear you happily report your good performance to your parents.
I wish you continued progress!
Dad
Sample letter 4 from parents to their children in the second grade of junior high school on x month x
Daughter:
In fact, I have always wanted to write I want to give you something, but I am afraid that painting a tiger will not turn out to be a dog. There are too many family letters from celebrities, such as Fu Lei's family letters, Liang Qichao's family letters, Zeng Guopan's family letters, etc. They are all famous people who cultivate themselves, express their ambitions, conduct themselves in society, and are sensible. She is very shy, but her father is very shy, but she is still her own daughter, and feelings cannot be replaced, and other people's family letters are always other people's.
Mom always remembers every bit of your life, she is always by your side, but dad’s memory of you is a continuous fragment. In the blink of an eye, you changed from a babbling to a young girl. I really It didn’t take me long to get used to it, I felt your happiness, and at the same time I felt your melancholy. Maybe there are some things that should be said. In a few years, I’m afraid there won’t be much time and opportunity to say them. The wild geese that have learned to fly always Have your own sky.
"Hoping for a son to become a dragon, hoping for a daughter to become a phoenix" has been around since ancient times. Of course, parents also have such fantasies, but their daughters are too young, so how can they be willing to put such pressure on you? The current study has already overwhelmed you, we I can’t bear to cause you any more troubles, but students always put academics first, and the competition in society is far greater than in the past. When you grow up, society will be more picky in its demand for talents. The whole society is like this, and there is nothing you can do except yourself. , If you don’t seek a bright future, at least you can live a peaceful life.
Dad is not a high-ranking official, nor is he rich. Your dream of becoming a second-generation official or a second-generation rich person is hopeless in your life, but your father works hard to give you a healthy growth environment and provides all the conditions to satisfy your growth. My father only has your daughter, who will he care for if not you? I told your mother: One good child is enough, but it is useless to have a bunch of bad children.
Dad can also talk about some big principles, and he can copy a lot of them, but I think it is better to tell you my own life experience, which may be more realistic and can help you grow. I also come from your age. Past results represent the past and have no more meaning for the future. Current learning is the key to the future. From elementary school to junior high school, you have completed the first competition and choice in your life. Competition is because grades are the only criterion for school selection. You have realized that choosing is because going to Jinsha Middle School is your own choice. Dad and Mom have no control over it. If you insist, we respect you and trust you. But you must be responsible for your own choices. Learning to take responsibility is an indispensable lesson in your life. This lesson can only be experienced and thought by yourself. Parents and teachers can only guide and remind you at best. What will be the result? What will happen to the future society? will give you the answer! ! No matter how you study or work in the future, how you deal with responsibilities will accompany you throughout your life and is a lesson you will face throughout your life! Of course, your studies are undoubtedly your biggest responsibility now, and you must learn to face it and learn to take responsibility.
Studying test scores are important, but never forget that the more important thing is to learn how to master knowledge. Listening well and understanding the teacher's explanation is more important than answering questions a hundred times. Modern society is about knowledge. In the era of explosion, knowledge and technology are changing with each passing day. Without a complete set of learning methods, let alone entering society, studying in high school, or even in the second and third grades of junior high school will be like years, and it will be the same as chewing wax, because the amount of learning every year in the future will The amount of knowledge will increase exponentially. Now is the beginning stage when you have just begun to accumulate basic knowledge and experience learning methods. I hope you can realize and notice that you must not sacrifice the basics for the last. The current discomfort is normal. Timely adjustment is the key. , this is also the second lesson you will always use in the future.
The principle of unity has been taught since elementary school. Dad is here to tell me that individual ability is always so small compared with collective strength. Lions and tigers often avoid wolves when they encounter them. On the other hand, modern companies and government management all value the strength of the team. Therefore, you must always position yourself correctly and learn how to communicate with others through getting along with classmates. Your current interactions will definitely lead to the purest friendship in life. The people we can chat best with now are also our former classmates. You will definitely understand this in the future. Realizing the importance of this kind of friendship, he will be a rare piece of pure sky in our lives. Remember that you can get along with all kinds of classmates, and focus on your own methods and attitudes towards others. Being able to get along well with anyone is a profound social knowledge.
But Dad doesn’t want you to learn their ways of doing things from anyone. If you can’t learn to control yourself at a young age, it’s best to surround yourself with classmates who are both good in character and academics. As the saying goes, “Those who are close to red will be red, and those who are close to ink will be black.” , I am also afraid that you will learn bad things, but in general, you are still young. As long as you are of good conduct, I think you should get along well with each other. Learn to make your classmates like you and learn to unite everyone. Even if you do not become a leader in the future, It will also help you gain friendship and kindness everywhere in your life. This is a lesson that is especially important for the only children of your generation. Your character is too steely to be easily broken, and too soft to stand up. People of your generation have characters that are too strong and not tough enough, so this is particularly important. It is also what you need to learn throughout your life. It’s a matter of learning, thinking, summarizing, and learning again. If you really do this well, you will have a worry-free life! Such people are rare!
There are roads in the mountain of books, and diligence is the path, and there is no limit to the sea of ??learning, and hard work is the boat. Studying is hard, and the talent for learning is important, but diligence is an inevitable condition for achievement. Diligence is not just a movie that ends today and will be played again in a few days. Diligence is a TV series in life that is broadcast every day. Never stop, persevere.
I have written too much, and maybe you don’t want to read it. In fact, I always feel that there are many, many more that I can’t finish. I’ll talk to you later if you want. I don’t require you to understand the above all at once, as long as you can experience it often, but the last lesson must be remembered all the time in the future: Mom and Dad brought you into the world, they cannot accompany you for a lifetime, nor can they walk for you. The path of life is determined by each person. Mom and Dad want you to be an upright person, impartial and impartial.
I sent a message before the start of school, hoping that my daughter can regain her strength and improve her academic career. "When the wind and waves come, hang up the clouds and sail across the sea." Who said that women are inferior to men, the little girl of the Wang family is worse than Mulan!
Always love your dad
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